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What's your biggest problem with your gf?
- Thread starter West
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Mainly the fact that she lives in Mexico and I live in Maryland :(
Just want to add a little to this. Try to avoid it if your both shitfaced cuz then you'll both be jaming your toungues down each others throats. The plus side is you'll be too gone to care!
And trueheart, how the hell did you meet up with someone from Mexico?
My biggest problem with my gf/fiancee (i dont know what the hell we are anymore) is that she constantly whines at me for taking too long to do things, example being this past week when I had to get my license renewed.
So I come home from work about 2 PM, and I sit down to relax for half an hour, even though my license expires the next day, because the secretary of state office is open until 7. The SECOND I get on, she IMs me asking if I had gone yet. I reply that I hadn't, and that I was sitting down to relax for half an hour before I went. She then proceeds to bitch me out for not going right away because my license is going to expire. I'm thinking, "Calm down, it's not like they're going to close in the thirty minutes that I'm sitting here" and I said as much, then she just starts telling me that I had to go NOW. I'm thinking to myself, "Shut the fuck up." I finally end up fibbing and telling her I was leaving, just blocking her for ten minutes so I could have some peace. That's the end of that story for the time being, until today...
She's in another town about an hour and a half away for the weekend staying with a girlfriend, and she calls me tonight. At some point she was talking about what she was going to do with her income tax return money, and also added a remark that I couldn't do that because I don't get my tax stuff in until the last minute (which is also true, but I am NEVER late), and then adds on a comment that that is just like getting my license renewed. At this point I'm just about ready to hang up on her. Am I wrong for wanting her not to nag me for this, or am I right in trying to put a stop to it?
So I come home from work about 2 PM, and I sit down to relax for half an hour, even though my license expires the next day, because the secretary of state office is open until 7. The SECOND I get on, she IMs me asking if I had gone yet. I reply that I hadn't, and that I was sitting down to relax for half an hour before I went. She then proceeds to bitch me out for not going right away because my license is going to expire. I'm thinking, "Calm down, it's not like they're going to close in the thirty minutes that I'm sitting here" and I said as much, then she just starts telling me that I had to go NOW. I'm thinking to myself, "Shut the fuck up." I finally end up fibbing and telling her I was leaving, just blocking her for ten minutes so I could have some peace. That's the end of that story for the time being, until today...
She's in another town about an hour and a half away for the weekend staying with a girlfriend, and she calls me tonight. At some point she was talking about what she was going to do with her income tax return money, and also added a remark that I couldn't do that because I don't get my tax stuff in until the last minute (which is also true, but I am NEVER late), and then adds on a comment that that is just like getting my license renewed. At this point I'm just about ready to hang up on her. Am I wrong for wanting her not to nag me for this, or am I right in trying to put a stop to it?
Finally, someone that thinks the way that I do. I'm sick of being called a terrible person for not wanting to commit.
Oh, another one? I have the same problem. People are such idiots.
All the time.
dude, why wouldn't you want her to stop ragging on you? by the way you described your situation i am pretty sure anyone would feel that way. i'd suggest sitting her down for a calm, adult chat about her habitual nagging and if you explain it the way you just did i don't see any problems arising. unless, of course, she is just loco. then i would suggest running away, as fast as you can, faster than the gingerbread man.
Well, thanks for that, I think I found a solution... next time she brings up my license, i'm going to be like "I'm sorry, when you get over it, call me back!" *click*
Me and Xochi share very similar issues. My fiancee and I have a few minor issues, but we deal with them wonderfully, most of the time. Our number one problem is mainly, she's obsessed with me. She gets mad at me when I'm sick because it reduces our time together, she complains about work all day because I can't be with her (or she wants me to walk around the store she works at for 4 hours doing nothing so I can be near her.) Another issue is that I always want her to decide what to do or whatnot. Not because I don't care, but I am extremely easy to get along with while she is the more picky of us. Therefore, I go with the theory that the one who cares should choose over the one that doesn't. But it doesn't look like I care that way. Bah.
Other than that, we are a damn good couple. We just hit our 4th anniversary and we're still in love as much as ever. Not to mention we also live together and have a nearly 3-year old daughter whom brightens our day.
As far as the nagging girl, just ask what her problem is. You are the way you are, and she can either deal with it or leave. You taking your time to do something doesn't directly impact her, unless of course the state office closed early because they wanted to go home early that. But still I see her point because she just wants to make sure you don't delay on something truly important and risk losing something important. Besides, she could of driven you the next morning =D
Other than that, we are a damn good couple. We just hit our 4th anniversary and we're still in love as much as ever. Not to mention we also live together and have a nearly 3-year old daughter whom brightens our day.
As far as the nagging girl, just ask what her problem is. You are the way you are, and she can either deal with it or leave. You taking your time to do something doesn't directly impact her, unless of course the state office closed early because they wanted to go home early that. But still I see her point because she just wants to make sure you don't delay on something truly important and risk losing something important. Besides, she could of driven you the next morning =D
Im not to good as far as dating goes, I only have had one gf before, and that only lasted 2 months. problem with me is i dont really like commitment so i dont date often. but i just hooked up with this girl at my friends party, lets see where this goes. other than that, problems with first gf, mainly included needing to calm the fuck down, to hyper, which was bad 80% of the time.
I don't really understand how being a good listener can be a bad thing though. Of course, if you don't want to end up in the friend zone so quickly, you need to talk too. A conversation is a 2-way thing y'know. A girl is a lot more likely to like you if she can actually find something that she likes about you, and the easiest way for her to find those things is if you try to share about stuff like common interests, but this again does require you to listen and talk. Just don't talk about yourself too much, listening IMO is a lot more important.
I'm pretty sure it's not JUST asking them how their day was that's resulting in it though. Would you say you're a good talker as well as a good listener?
Yeah, that really sucks, to become "just friends". Is like if you were castrated for them.
My biggest problem in any relationship is that after a while there's a part of me that wants to be single again. My rational mind ignores this feeling however because as soon as I break it off I find myself in another relationship anyway.
Other than that my current relationship is pretty good besides the occasional girl moment where she's emotional over something that I did that to me seems insignificant.
Oh and I guess the fact that she doesn't like smoking of any kind and I'm smoking pot behind her back.
Other than that my current relationship is pretty good besides the occasional girl moment where she's emotional over something that I did that to me seems insignificant.
Oh and I guess the fact that she doesn't like smoking of any kind and I'm smoking pot behind her back.
nothing. I'm totally happy.
Uhm, this is about gfs (girl friends?)
@Carl: would she break up with you outright if she knew about that?
Almost everyone deals with this. If the urge to be single is too strong, then you know you were only after her for the chase. Nearly everyone has to deal with the "oh, I've got her, now what?", if only for a short time.
My girlfriend is a fashion major who loves sex and frequently does modeling jobs. She also is about as excited for the Manaphy event at Toys R Us this weekend as I am. But that's not my problem.
She doesn't swallow and it makes oral sex difficult. One time I kind of fired off before I really had a chance to warn her and she jumped on top of me, kissed me, and spit it back in my mouth, which was fucking hilarious but kind of a bummer that my load results in violent return. Any help? Do pineapples really help?
She doesn't swallow and it makes oral sex difficult. One time I kind of fired off before I really had a chance to warn her and she jumped on top of me, kissed me, and spit it back in my mouth, which was fucking hilarious but kind of a bummer that my load results in violent return. Any help? Do pineapples really help?
That is truly hilarious, but not for the reasons you're mentioning... it's because you're worrying about an extremely trivial thing. :)