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a combination of training for others, not sleeping well, and getting battles off my massive AIM "Pokemon" buddy list. ;) Battle Me is a last resort, for obvious reasons. Dx
I guess the reason is because I started doing Shoddy. The main reason is because I can get better faster if I spend more time battling and less time training or trading. But when I actually become a good battler I think I'll probably go back to the real thing because it's just more fun that way. :P
I don't, sorry. :( I know Aromaflora has a Naive one, but I don't know anyone with a modest one. You can always ask in the simple requests thread too if anyone has one or knows where to find one.
I remember the trade again, it was the shiny timid venonat for my timid hp ground houndoom, unfortunally I can't trade now because I'm going to sleep, it's half four in the morning here :) I'll pm you when I see you online for the trade.