Sorry, yeah that was me, I was so distracted, then I realise I didn't have my Alternate forme code on, then I realised I hadn't added you to my Pal Pad, then I realised I'd forgotten to actualy change Rotom's forme, but it was too late >_>. Sorry, I don't usually take so long.
And yeah, you can usually use the special moves if you use the AR code, even if you're facing a D/P player.