I'd like to address a few issues here, although I haven't the time to look into each statistic provided.
Well, as you provided no sourcing to substantiate these claims, I did some googling and found that they come from Second Amendment Sisters. The problem with many of their "FACTS" is that most of them are either not adequately sourced (providing only the name of an organization and/or a year, or no source at all) or based on laughably antiquated studies (they cite a study from 1979, for instance).
The claim that more guns are "used" for self-defense than for murder is specious at best. What constitutes "self-defense" is a circumstancial and nebulous notion. Was there really no recourse but to firearms in each of those situations? How many of them were simply robbers running away because they discovered someone was at home, regardless of the presence of firearms? How many were actually life-threatening? How many other non-life-threatening situations turned sour at the presence of a weapon? Not all shootings require death; how many were seriously injured as a result of firearm-related crimes? I find those statistics to be rather questionable, as well. According to more recent statistics from the Justice Department
[d]uring 2004, law enforcement agencies provided supplemental data for 666 justifiable homicides [out of a total of 29,569 firearm deaths]. A breakdown of those figures revealed that law enforcement officers justifiably killed 437 felons and private citizens justifiably killed 229 felons.[1]
While all statistics are easy to manipulate, this certainly suggests that life-threatening situations necessitating lethal defensive force are much rarer than you would have us believe. Moreover, if we are engaging in a statistics-marshaling contest, guns are much more likely to be used in crimes than in self-defense[2].
1. See Tables 2.15 and 2.16,
http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/cius_04/offenses_reported/violent_crime/murder.html.
2. See, e.g.,
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/9715182