What's that term for when someone takes your argument and extends it to ludicrous proportions to try and debunk it? The phrase escapes me. Either way, it applies here. Do not put words into my mouth. By 'irresponsible child' I mean anyone who would break the laws of the road intentionally for no good reason.
I live in England, there is an entirely different system here to the one(s) in the US. Here, you take your test, show your technical prowess, get your license - your parents are not involved. There are no drug tests or substance abuse checks.
The general productivity of a few idiots is not a factor when dealing with the life and death of innocent people. If you can't be responsible enough to drive safely then you shouldn't be given the privilege of driving at all.
This isn't all directed at you but its the one that started my response.
The people that get caught being irrensponsible usually get punished. It's not a perfect system but it probably works the best out of any other.
Fun fact: The United States has 31 states that have a bigger landmass than the entire country of England (11 bigger than UK)
The point: You NEED a car in America to be "a productive member of society". We are to large to have an effective train/subway or bus system in all but the biggest of cities. No car decreases your chances of getting a job decreasing your chances of being able to pay for education.
My summer job that I've had for the past 3 years requires that I drive a truck almost the entire day. I was a good driver before but I'm now at a "driving maturity age" far higher than most people my age now.
Couple things I've learned.
1. Speeding does jack shit in city and suburban environments.
We were encouraged by our boss to relax at work and drive slow. After all we are paid by the hour and not by how many sites we got done. Why speed? Getting there faster would mean more work for the same amount of pay. Last 3 summers I have barely sped and you know what? The asshole that just zoomed around you is almost always sitting at the next light waiting. If you want to speed for whatever reason whether that is because its fun or because you are late for work, know that is your choice and you have to deal with the possible consequences.
Speeding on the highway and on county roads will get you there faster. This is significantly more dangerous mainly because of the high speeds you are dealing with which cut down on reaction time and turn small mistakes into big ones.
Also not speeding usually will help with gas mileage as well.
"In general, smaller, lighter, more aerodynamic cars will get their best mileage at higher speeds. Bigger, heavier, less aerodynamic vehicles will get their best mileage at lower speeds."
40-60mph is the sweet spot for most vehicles.
2. The worst drivers IMO on the road are again from experience are generally:
Hot shot young guns- You know these types. The thing is a good number of them outgrow it after they reach a certain age in their 20's. Some don't and never do. By the time most their age gain this level of maturity, their insurance rates drop. Coincidence?
Old people- Again anyone that has driven knows this. Lower reactions speeds and failing vision mean they can't prevent accidents as well as they could before.
Women- I really can't think of any reason I can say that isn't sexist but I'll be damned if I don't see more crappy dumb ass women drivers then I do hot shots. I want to treat the sexes equal ground but in general I've found men are better safer road drivers than women, even the ones that can't control their testosterone and feel the need for speed.
The advice that people are horrible drivers until proven otherwise is also good. Makes you a bit paranoid though :D
Fuzznip, sorry for your loss and thanks for sharing. You might have saved a life