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contacted opponent monday, telling him what times I could play, and asking when he could play - he returned friday saying "we in NU open", as I told him I already contacted him on his wall. no response since, so calling act
was able to play against my opponent but after game 1 which I won, he told me he needed to change his team on showdown and I haven't heard from him since Sunday
The first game https://replay.pokemonshowdown.com/gen7nu-776205149