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What's your biggest problem with your gf?
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What is a gf? lol. Don't think I've ever had one of those before. Wait, I KNOW I haven't had one before.
A shotgun?
I'm currently working on this girl (lol sounds crude but I don't know how else to put it). We've known each other for a while but only recently started seeing each other outside of our social groups. I don't want us to cross "the line" into too-good-of-friends-to-date territory, but I'm a bit nervous about taking the next step, because I'm pretty sure she's too shy too.
lol internet girl help =[
I'm currently working on this girl (lol sounds crude but I don't know how else to put it). We've known each other for a while but only recently started seeing each other outside of our social groups. I don't want us to cross "the line" into too-good-of-friends-to-date territory, but I'm a bit nervous about taking the next step, because I'm pretty sure she's too shy too.
lol internet girl help =[
Me and my girlfriend were close friends for about two years before we got together. We've been together happily for a year and a half now! So don't really worry about leaving it too long! ;) Any time you spend getting to know her before taking the next step will only stand to you.
That said, if she's quite shy, like my girlfriend was, you're better off to just bite the bullet and tell her you like her. I did, within a reasonable amount of time, once I realised I had feelings for her. Better that than both of you pussy footing around not quite sure what to do!
The fact that you used the words "putting up with a girl" tells some of the story about why you don't have a girlfriend. I don't think that kind of mentality really lends itself to being in a relationship at this stage of your life.
Maybe I'm wrong, so could you clarify what you meant by that?
Maybe I'm wrong, so could you clarify what you meant by that?
I know what you mean. You see people that have a new girlfriend every two or three months. Maybe they do it for companionship, not love. Or maybe just for the sex. I tend to get too attatched to girls to just forget about them and move on that quick. So I've never looked for a girlfriend, just let whatever happens happen.
Okay you Smogon chick expert/relationship gurus, help a brother out here:
Last spring I met this girl randomly and dated her for a little over a month. Thing seemed to be getting serious but she left and went home for the summer once the school year ended. We had an unspoken agreement that once she left, that was it, but speaking a bit over the summer I realized that I missed her more than I thought I would, and she did me. But now that she's come back, we've hung out three times and all I've gotten is a peck on the cheek.
What do I do?!?!
Last spring I met this girl randomly and dated her for a little over a month. Thing seemed to be getting serious but she left and went home for the summer once the school year ended. We had an unspoken agreement that once she left, that was it, but speaking a bit over the summer I realized that I missed her more than I thought I would, and she did me. But now that she's come back, we've hung out three times and all I've gotten is a peck on the cheek.
What do I do?!?!
Biggest problem with my gf: she doesn't exist.
Ugh, in the worst relationship I've had, we had this agreement that we would be completely honest with each other if one of us was doing something that was pissing the other off so we could fix the problem, right? Well, a few months passed, and I realized I was going out with someone who was completely stubborn and would refuse to change their ways. So I told him, "you're too stubborn, and you never listen to any of my advice. we need to fix this"
But he was too stubborn to, well, listen to me. I ended things quickly thereafter.
Ugh, in the worst relationship I've had, we had this agreement that we would be completely honest with each other if one of us was doing something that was pissing the other off so we could fix the problem, right? Well, a few months passed, and I realized I was going out with someone who was completely stubborn and would refuse to change their ways. So I told him, "you're too stubborn, and you never listen to any of my advice. we need to fix this"
But he was too stubborn to, well, listen to me. I ended things quickly thereafter.
Show her the sweatpants boner from the The Twix Ice Cream Pictorial Thread. She'll be like putty in your hands.
For further advice, I'd require more information such as:
-Did she tell you she missed you more than she expected? Or was this an assumption?
-Were the times you went out classified as "dates" and if not what did you guys do?
K, here goes:
I've... Never made out with a someone before. Sure, I've kissed plenty but never did any tongue action. Now, with this girlfriend she seems to kinda... want to, but I don't know how to approach with it or really, how to do it right. I don't want to mess it up. I had a freebie why I didn't on our last date (Had a cold sore. Still have it, fuck I hate Cold sores. I'd hate to have Herpies where you get massive break-outs... Fuck, anyway!). Any advice from someone who knows what they doing?
Oh and does anyone ever get that feeling where you start going out with someone, and you get mixed feelings about it? Sometimes I want to avoid her and not speak, but other times she's good to be around. Ahh...
<_< Laugh all you want, I don't care.
I've... Never made out with a someone before. Sure, I've kissed plenty but never did any tongue action. Now, with this girlfriend she seems to kinda... want to, but I don't know how to approach with it or really, how to do it right. I don't want to mess it up. I had a freebie why I didn't on our last date (Had a cold sore. Still have it, fuck I hate Cold sores. I'd hate to have Herpies where you get massive break-outs... Fuck, anyway!). Any advice from someone who knows what they doing?
Oh and does anyone ever get that feeling where you start going out with someone, and you get mixed feelings about it? Sometimes I want to avoid her and not speak, but other times she's good to be around. Ahh...
<_< Laugh all you want, I don't care.
My biggest problem with my GF...let me think...oh yea, she's, in a place where I cannot physically touch her. I can't break her out, or I might die, and I can't have her escape, because its not posssible. Help?
Guess where she is?
(In my mind...).
Ctrl + A for the clueless.... :(
Guess where she is?
(In my mind...).
Ctrl + A for the clueless.... :(
LOL.... That might work, but thats...wrong.
1. don't jam your tongue down her throat
2. seriously, don't jam your tongue down her throat.
jokes aside, i learned by mimicking what the girl did. its easy and most chicks can't tell that you don't know what you are doing unless you really, really suck at it.
This is very, very good advice; just sort of copy what the girl does, and seriously, you may be a little nervous now, but once it actually starts happening, whether your'e doing it right or not will be the last thing you'll be thinking about, and because of this, you'll do it completely fine..
make sure your lips are covering your teeth too (or else your like taking a bite out of your open mouth), and dont use too much tongue. lightly licking ladies' lips can work, and its a good idea to follow her lead on how deep to go; some ladies dont even like 2 tongues touching, some ladies want you to stick your tongue between their gums and upper lip AND JUST GO CRAZY.
most ladies ive been with like being bitten on the lip while kissing but that's usually not something to try 1st time i guess.
what else..
oral hygiene. obsess over it.