That sounds really cute. Congrats man! Which aunt is your mother suggesting you come out to? Your mother's sister or your father's sister?
Well, actually she's not even my aunt lol. She's been my Mom's best friend since they were young, but she's my Aunt. =) She's like my seconf Mom actually...So, I'll go with my Aunt on my Mother's side lol.
My first post in this thread, but I just want to say congrats man and stuff-- honesty (with oneself) is the best policy, and living proud to be who you are is the best and first thing anyone can do for himself. I know it's easy to talk the talk but not walk the walk-- but hey, you're walking man! Respect!
That actually made me feel really good! After reading this, I felt like what I did was actually a good thing. And for the first time I actually felt good about this entire experience, so I thank you very much for that.
Hell naw. Not only are we full of life experience of all different kinds, but there are plenty of other gay Smogoners who can share their experience. Personally, I love helping people in any way I can.
That is quite respectable, DM, especially since most heterosexual men want nothing to do with a gay man. I appreciate that and I'm also glad that there are so many people willing to help me out and I don't know any of them personally. S/n: I still think you're gorgeous. ;)
Congratulations for being who you are? No seriously, this is ridiculous; your homosexual (or bisexual, it doesn't matter) and it's just how your made, the same way I am a heterosexual. It's nothing to be happy of, nor to be ashamed of. You shouldn't be celebrating the fact that you accepted this (if you do it would be pretty sad) for there is no difference between being homosexual or heterosexual, we are made that way, there's nothing else to it. You should not celebrate the fact you accepted that, but you should instead blame and look down upon those who says your abnormal for they created that whole situation in which you were.
You know I can see both the good and the bad in this..at first, I thought you were just being a douche and I honestly still think so. I don't see the point at getting pissed at or looking down upon the people who don't like me for any reason and not just because I'm gay. Like Junior's avy, Haters are gonna hate and people hate out of anger, jealousy, and stupidness. So, I must have something they don't is they're jealous of me or even angry. Beauty is a gift from God and they can hate on that all they want. ;)
Back to the original point of this response...why would I
not celebrate the fact that the woman I am closest to accepts the fact that I'm gay? I've lived in fear of losing those people I love the most over this shit. I'm overjoyed to know that she accepts me no matter what. Also, this is
my moment, so let me have it! K thanks! =D
it's awesome that your family is so openminded.
The worst reaction I got from my family was that my dad didn't want to talk about it; I'm his only child so it is understandable.
And I don't think I will ever tell my Father. He's the most homophobic, close-minded person I've ever seen. But in reality though, I'm not sure how much it would affect me even if he didn't accept me. We don't have the best relationship anyway...it's sad to say, but oh so true.
Congrats Flamewheeler! We've all been there, tears and all. But it gets easier! I think you're gonna be just fine. :D
And I'm sure there is plenty more to come! I actually didn't think I would have so much emotion burst out of me- I'm not an emotional person. In fact, if someone starts crying around me, I have to get someone else because I'm just not good with drama and shit. =/
Inspirational.
I shed a tear reading your post, must be a mountain off your back.
People that love you cannot do any less than accept you for what you are and it is clear that your mom, and the same surely goes for the rest of your family, love you.
I dont feel I need to know you to be proud of you.
I shed a tear when I think about someone who I've never met or even spoken to could feel this way. I thank you because that actually makes me feel great. I think I'm doing something right. =)
Thanks again everyone! I'll be sure to keep you all updated. This is like a journal...but I don't keep those..lol