Death Phenomeno
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Due to an incident in which one of my nieces was indirectly involved, I'd like to know the opinion of everyone on this matter.
So, imagine this. Your bully, the person who makes your life hell, is in grave danger. What do you do? Do you save him/her? Do you leave and let him/her die? Do you tell someone else to see if that person saves him/her? Do you sit and watch him/her die?
This might sound horrifying, but if half a group of ~12 year olds could simply say "good riddance" or "he deserved it" and leave someone else to drown (which is a horrible death, no matter how you look at it)… On the other hand, some bullies are much, much worse than others, and we don't have all the details.
Which leads me to another subject. Since obviously each person is different, what would be your "breaking" point? What would your bully have to do so that you leave that person to die?
NOTE: If you for some reason can't relate to bullying, please don't post.
According to my niece, who is 12, so some details might be exaggerated/inaccurate, this is what happened:
Three months ago, give or take, my niece's group from school (around 30 kids) was in a birthday party. Everyone was invited, including for some reason the group bully. Everything was normal as far as kid parties can be, until the bully started making trouble.
Now, half the kids were in the pool, and the other half were eating somewhere else in the house. The bully started shoving people into the pool, but for some reason, he slipped and fell into it.
Turns out, the bully couldn't swim.
Everyone who was in the pool got out, and left. My niece says that after that, she ran and told an adult what had happened. Said adult jumped into the pool and saved the bully. After some phone calls, the bully's mother arrived and took him away, apparently without even saying thanks.
After that, the bully never returned to the school. My niece says that nobody knows what happened to him.
Three months ago, give or take, my niece's group from school (around 30 kids) was in a birthday party. Everyone was invited, including for some reason the group bully. Everything was normal as far as kid parties can be, until the bully started making trouble.
Now, half the kids were in the pool, and the other half were eating somewhere else in the house. The bully started shoving people into the pool, but for some reason, he slipped and fell into it.
Turns out, the bully couldn't swim.
Everyone who was in the pool got out, and left. My niece says that after that, she ran and told an adult what had happened. Said adult jumped into the pool and saved the bully. After some phone calls, the bully's mother arrived and took him away, apparently without even saying thanks.
After that, the bully never returned to the school. My niece says that nobody knows what happened to him.
So, imagine this. Your bully, the person who makes your life hell, is in grave danger. What do you do? Do you save him/her? Do you leave and let him/her die? Do you tell someone else to see if that person saves him/her? Do you sit and watch him/her die?
This might sound horrifying, but if half a group of ~12 year olds could simply say "good riddance" or "he deserved it" and leave someone else to drown (which is a horrible death, no matter how you look at it)… On the other hand, some bullies are much, much worse than others, and we don't have all the details.
Which leads me to another subject. Since obviously each person is different, what would be your "breaking" point? What would your bully have to do so that you leave that person to die?
NOTE: If you for some reason can't relate to bullying, please don't post.
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