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Let me take your suggestion and replace 'defiled' with your phrase in that sentence:i'm not being intellectually dishonest at all. you said people were putting words in your mouth and that you would feel the same way if a man was in porn, and i pointed out that as defiled is unquestionably not a gender-neutral term (not about to argue about gay sex with you, and honestly it's even stranger to me that you, a gay guy, would consider being fucked up the ass by another dude being 'defiled'), and that using it over just saying 'having sex on camera' betrays a complete lack of gender-neutrality on the issue.
You don't just wake up one day and decide to have sex on camera [to be] passed around forever on the internet.
Ok, that still sounds pretty reasonable and now it is even gender-neutral enough for your standards.
I worked at those "shitty jobs" before. It was not an inspiration of self-respect, it was an admission that I had no qualifications to do anything else. I still put it on my resume and mentioned it in interviews.lol wow, seeing how in your eyes jobs that 'literally anyone can do' are an admission that one is incapable of anything more, it's pretty surprising that you have any respect for these people at all. them working those shitty jobs belies how little respect they have for themselves, doesn't it?
Can you people please explain why you think being a janitor brings about the same emotions as being a porn star?
Are you serious with this? What does this have to do with rape, at all? I was ready to give you the old thumbs up for the classic "claim sexism based on one word, dismiss entire post" move but you really caught me off guard with this. Since you obviously can't be bothered to look it up to protect your world view, let me read the first google search result to clarify what I mean:i wasn't even addressing you, j7r, when i said that? as for "suffering," is this why girls who suffer from rape were asking for it, because they dressed in such a way that their attacker was completely helpless to combat their personal arousal? how about you google image "kiss my ass" and pick your favorite to portray what i think about all of that
The relationship between sexual desire and arousal in men is complex, with a wide range of factors increasing or decreasing sexual arousal.[23] Physiological responses, such as heart rate, blood pressure, and erection, are often discordant with self-reported subjective perceptions of arousal.[24] This inconsistency suggests that psychological, or cognitive aspects, also have a strong effect on sexual arousal. The cognitive aspects of sexual arousal in men are not completely known, but it does involve the appraisal and evaluation of the stimulus, categorization of the stimulus as sexual, and an affective response.[25] Research suggests that cognitive factors, such as sexual motivation, perceived gender role expectations, and sexual attitudes, contribute to sex differences observed in subjective sexual arousal. Specifically, while watching visual stimuli, men are more influenced by the sex of an actor portrayed in the stimulus, and men typically prefer a stimulus that allows objectification of the actor and projection of themselves into the scenario.[26][27] There are reported differences in brain activation to sexual stimuli, with men showing higher levels of amygdala and hypothalamic responses than women. This suggests the amygdala plays a critical role in the processing of sexually arousing visual stimuli in men.[22]
So you were right, you shouldn't pretend to understand the male's relationship to brain and body.
Still, being gay has never made me lie to the american taxpayer about my work history.I think you're misunderstanding the point of that analogy. There's obviously a huge difference between being a porn actor/actress and being of non-heterosexual orientation, but the point of the analogy is that both groups are being treated differently from the norm despite their unusual state not really relating to the situation at hand.