Serious Relationships and Sex Ed Thread

little did joseph know that getting into shape meant he would lose what little alcohol tolerance he had in the past

RIP
 
This. Also it's not other people's place to tell you what your sexual identity is, regardless of what your actual orientation might be.

Best post on the subject. Tell your friends to fuck off, it's really none of their business.
 
no because she identifies as a woman :P


update I reached out with no response. Yep I'm dumb and I just feel like shit now. I need to stop putting myself in such vulnerable positions sigh. welp that's the last of that. hopefully it's completely done now. I'll just have nothing to do with him from now on.
 
Wow this thread is so fucked up (pun intended)....

I'm thoroughly enjoying myself here. Please carry on.

The wonders of online (semi) anonymity..

do I have a story to share? hmm maybe.

PS: Waterbomb, change your Signature to LoveGuru.
 
so i know a lot of teasing is going on rn and it is light-hearted, but there is actually something pretty sinister going on re: nina if his friends are undermining his own sense of his orientation and trying to make out like they have a superior grasp on it than he does

we all love you regardless; so don't let anybody else tell you what you are

find what is right within yourself; that's the truth of your universe
 
Want to make a few more intentional spelling errors Nianhaza? We need to know just how drunk you are!
 
i never make intentional spelling errors. well sometimes i backspace to try and spell a certain word correctly when drunk, but most of the time the result remains the same. so i guess that could count as intentional misspelling.

rest assured though, when my friends and i get drunk and or high, we GET DRUNK AND OR HIGH.

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this picture does not really help out my bisexuality case, but you can bet your sweet masterball that we were already fucked up at that point. also we are very comfortable around each other lol

also i didnt even know that the following picture was taken, but its pretty funny
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apparently when i'm fucked up, using the bathroom inside is not good enough for me. i was trying my very best not to tip over, but in the end i went down like a tree (thank God the pee was out of me by then).

anyways, I've already puked twice this morning and i feel like absolute shit. when i make claims of being drunk on smogon, you can rest assured i am far gone in the world of silliness that is alcohol.

and finally. this whole bisexuality thing is something i obviously need to talk about, but not now. when i am feeling a little better, i'll return maybe

Edit: also it doesnt help my spelling/grammar that i am on my phone when doing this most of the time.
 
update I reached out with no response. Yep I'm dumb and I just feel like shit now. I need to stop putting myself in such vulnerable positions sigh. welp that's the last of that. hopefully it's completely done now. I'll just have nothing to do with him from now on.

Sorry to hear this junior, but you're not dumb for trying. Your situation is a sucky one, but if he's acting the way he is it's best just to stay out his way and don't let how he's acting affect you.
 
echoing corkscrew's post. you just did the mature, sensible, kind thing

don't feel shitty about being a good human being with a fine centre

also rest up nina hahahaha oh lord
 
Does it count if it's a guy who had surgery to turn into a girl???
I don't think so. although i don't know why you'd go out of your way to look at man made vaginas (you know what I mean) when the real thing is so spectacular
although the increase in popularity of trap porn is interesting

hahaha
trap porn
like porn with trap music
that'd be funny
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this picture does not really help out my bisexuality case, but you can bet your sweet masterball that we were already fucked up at that point. also we are very comfortable around each other lol
if keeping a brother company while he's taking a dump is gay i don't want to be straight

seriously brohiem, some of my most intimate (you know, honest, real, not sexual) moments with best friends have been in washrooms

and they're easy to hotbox!


also fuck him junior!
 
Yeah but apparently I ack very gay and I have no problem pointing out wheb a guy is very attractive, but I think that's a very weak argument. So what if I let a guy fucking suck my dick. Zach is actually very cute and I regret nothing

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No offense. This was just too perfect to not share. xD

Apart from that.
It's your life. Don't let anybody else dictate you on your tastes.
 
so i know a lot of teasing is going on rn and it is light-hearted, but there is actually something pretty sinister going on re: nina if his friends are undermining his own sense of his orientation and trying to make out like they have a superior grasp on it than he does

Ignoring for a moment that sexual attractions are vastly more complex than a clear choice between two or three options (straight, bi, or gay) for a moment.

It's perfectly plausible that someone's own view of their orientation isn't completely accurate, especially in cases where that orientation has a degree of cultural stigma attached to it (homosexuality, bisexuality, many fetishes, etc etc) and thus may be repressed (sometimes subconsciously).


My only follow up comment would be that a negative view about an activity between consenting parties that doesn't harm anyone says a lot about the person holding the view and pretty much nothing about the activity.
 
where did i say it was a clear choice out of those options?

where did i say it isn't plausible for someone to not have a completely accurate view of their own orientation?

the point is that lording over someone your impression of their sexuality is going to by and large do more harm than good, and it is incredibly condescending
 
What do I do if a girl is in to rape roll play but I really REALLY REALLY can't get off on violence against women???
help!!!
 
What do I do if a girl is in to rape roll play but I really REALLY REALLY can't get off on violence against women???
help!!!

Treating this like a serious question, don't compromise your own sexual desires to satisfy someone else. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties, so find other things that you can both agree on. It's awkward at first, but you should really talk to her about these things so you can discover what each other do/don't like. You might be pleasantly surprised at some of the things you will find out.
 
What do I do if a girl is in to rape roll play but I really REALLY REALLY can't get off on violence against women???
help!!!

Don't force it and take your time. Gradually work up to this extreme fantasy with lighter play, and be extremely sure to practice using stuff like safewords, informed consent, etc. Gradually you'll associate these things with her own pleasure and you'll be able to frame it as a method of pleasing rather than hurting her.
 
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