I think my biggest problem is I don't/can't put a lot of thought into the process. I usually use leave out Togekiss and Garchomp, and use the other six.
The in the game if they have weather I put Zapdos out first with either hitmontop or abomasnow. If they don't have weather, I use ninetales and Zapdos first.
Have I bored you talking about Aspergers yet?