What was your most romantic moment? Mine was my very awkward first kiss with my boyfriend, on the crows nest of his grandparents house overlooking the ocean. 
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Ah, romance.
- Thread starter RoseSunglasses
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Aww, little moments are always the best.
The closest I've come to a romantic moment is when me and my friend almost kissed when we were going to take a drink from the water fountain. *sighs*
a bottle of whiskey and a box of condoms
Haha, first kisses are never accurate. My first kiss was from the side. :nerd: Lol. Very awkward.
Umm, I guess mine was with my ex girlfriend. We met at a party neither one of us wanted to go to. She was sitting alone and didn't really know most the people. I was sitting alone also because I was resting from playing basketball with the guys. We kept looking at each other but we were to shy to say anything. Finally I grew balls and walked over to her and ask her something (can't remember what it was just to start conversation). Turns out we both found each other attractive and at the end of the night we ended up sharing a really nice hug (yea yea... it was just a hug). And then 5 years later we broke up :)... The End.
I can't think of any particularly romantic moments, but I can think of a very unromantic one. On a first date I went with this girl to see 300; normally I like watching the trailers, but they kind of sucked this time so I thought I would entertain myself with some pre-movie romancing. Just as I begin leaning in for a kiss (and as she leans in too, her lips quivering, of course), the movie starts and I just put my index finger on her mouth and say, "Not now, it's time for 300" and watch the movie. We still went out for about 2 months.
I used to think things were romantic... then I got married. All the romance sort of fades into distant memory at that point. I think when relationships become real, the mystical feelings surrounding romance disappear, and are replaced with a more worldly understanding of why a person is important to you.
Haha, what a baller.
I can't really think of anything overly romantic that i've ever done, but my ex used to make me mixtape cds.
My first girlfriend and I were cuddling and listening to Smashing Pumpkins while lying in the middle of some elementary school hallway. And I had never kissed a girl and I wasn't trying to go for it because I liked her a lot and was really content. But she moved in to kiss me and it was short and sweet. Just a peck on the lips.
And I was :) aww that was nice.
And then she moves in again and this time crams her tongue down my throat.
:(
And I was :) aww that was nice.
And then she moves in again and this time crams her tongue down my throat.
:(
...Ew. That's just plain flat out gross. :(
Hmm, well I definitely agree with Altmer and Mendo on the tongue thing, this one girl I had last week seemed like she was trying to lick the bottom of my stomach.
As far as my most romantic moment, it probably was sitting on a dock down by my lake with the girl I had my first kiss with, we both had our legs hanging off the dock into the lake, and we just sat and looked at the lake and talked. I don't have many romantic moments, so I'd say that wins.
As far as my most romantic moment, it probably was sitting on a dock down by my lake with the girl I had my first kiss with, we both had our legs hanging off the dock into the lake, and we just sat and looked at the lake and talked. I don't have many romantic moments, so I'd say that wins.
+1000
Most romantic moment for me was probably the first time me and my ex met. There are plenty of other moments that are more satisfying and/or kinky, but that's probably the only one that doesn't trend into that territory at all.
personally I don't mind the whole thing. But, I did meet this one girl once who wasn't a virgin and tried pulling that shit on me. Needless to say we broke up. If your a virgin and your saving yourself for marriage I can completely understand. If your not then I ask you this... WTF?
Personally I think I'm a nice guy and maybe I can shed some light on this from a non assholes point of view. Your absolutely right there is alot more to love then sex. Sex isn't even a big issue in the relationship... until your not having any. Sex feels good and we're designed to crave it (I speak for both genders). Think about it, if we weren't sexually driven how would life have made it this far? Not every animal on the planet is as intelligent as us. So sex had to have a pretty big benefit for something as dumb as a rat to actually want to do it. Lol, interesting conversation here for a pokemon website. Give me latios damit!
I'm not quite sure what you were getting at there DK, care to clarify?
Romance, romance.. the most romantic moment I've ever had was oddly enough with an ex; it was the first time we'd met, we were drunk and on mdma and we went for a walk by the river and sat up a tree together, and he said that I was never to forget that moment and put his hands on my face (Christ, reading it like that it sounds Biblical) and we kissed.
After we split up, for my birthday he wrote me a letter and gave me the leaf he'd taken from the tree along with a zippo lighter that he'd had my name engraved on it. He was a deeply romantic boy, shame that was all we had in common.
Romance, romance.. the most romantic moment I've ever had was oddly enough with an ex; it was the first time we'd met, we were drunk and on mdma and we went for a walk by the river and sat up a tree together, and he said that I was never to forget that moment and put his hands on my face (Christ, reading it like that it sounds Biblical) and we kissed.
After we split up, for my birthday he wrote me a letter and gave me the leaf he'd taken from the tree along with a zippo lighter that he'd had my name engraved on it. He was a deeply romantic boy, shame that was all we had in common.
+1000 is just a numerical representation of "This. This. This."
I also separate out "romantic" moments as non-sexual love moments for the most part. E.g. assuming beardsly over there isn't full of his usual purposeful errancy in reporting, that moment would be more kinky than actually romantic.
Fooling around naked in the shower was kinky, but I don't consider it primarily romantic, for example.
Don't be an idiot; "pushing" and "raping" are not synonymous. And if he was just in it for the sex then he wouldn't have even bothered pushing her; he would have just went for another girl that wanted to have sex. He clearly liked her and was willing to devote some time in their relationship (putting off sex), but he can't not have sex until he's married and he's unwilling to cheat.
And no sex isn't everything, but it is essential in any relationship. You're fooling yourself if you deny that, or you're just inexperienced. It's a desire that, when not satisfied, makes us feel miserable, and the only reason we ever deny ourselves this desire is because of social stigmatization (like the kind you're using, where you're an asshole for wanting sex, or the kind Objection is using, where you're amongst the mindless sex-craving majority). But then you just realize that it's a little fun, a lot of fun, or incredibly satisfying (though potentially dangerous if you're not careful).
I seriously feel sorry for you, especially Objection. He's probably not going to have awkward sex until he's in his mid-20s and all because of some misguided notion that wanting and actively pursuing sex is something to be ashamed of.
Actually, they pretty much are. If you don't have active consent, you're committing sexual assault. If you 'push' a woman until she gives up saying 'no, stop' and just lets you do what you want amazingly enough that is still rape. Don't do anything your partner has not freely and openly consented to. Ever.