Um. I fully support the right of women to dress as they please; if a woman desires she should be able to go out dressed however and not fear recrimination in the form of sexual violence. I think if a woman wants to wear makeup she should, that's her choice; same for miniskirts, pretty dresses, or whatever the hell you name. Personally, I don't enjoy wearing skirts, pretty dresses, makeup and nice clothes; these things bore the hell out of me. One of my best friends, however, is obsessed with pink, eyeliner, and dressing immaculately every day. Do I think she's wasting her time to do so? Absolutely. Does she think I'm wasting my time on pokemon, philosophy and learning Latin? Totally.
Do either of us think the other should stop doing what makes them happy? Fuck no.
Your argument is entirely fallacious and strawman - what I would like to see is more variety presented in the media's ideal of 'beautiful'. What I would like to see is more strong, female characters who don't have to look fantastically attractive and dress well and conform to some stereotype of how a female is supposed to look - what the hell is wrong with that? Kids do not have a choice to what they are exposed to.
Girls don't HAVE a fucking choice (neither do boys, but to a lesser extent than girls and I'll argue that some other time). Girls are told - pink is girly. Football is not girly. Cooking is girly. Running round, being loud, getting dirty and making a mess is not girly.
And no, Ancien Regime, that's not my point either. My point is that girls and boys should be free to like whatever the hell they please, without boys being called (BAN ME PLEASE)y for having a proclivity towards playing with tea-sets and wearing pink and without girls being told they're ugly/boyish/unfeminine because they might enjoy shouting a lot, getting covered in mud and climbing trees.
And finally, Lexite, I'm not going to get into an argument about why feminism is still necessary globally, so let's just drop that point, eh? And please, please, please stay off the implied rape apologism, because you are quite clearly proving my point. The girl/woman that is "forced" to have sex with her boyfriend, as you so abhorrently put it, was raped. End of.