Serious Relationships and Sex Ed Thread

ur friend should just stop trying for that girl, if she doesn't like him but feels pressured to say yes to him for a date or something it will just hurt more once she rejects him in the end becuz he got false hope up for her liking him when it was just her inability to say no to him to begin with...

i kno it's hard but if he keeps trying and the girl isn't brave enough to str8 up reject him he's gonna be very sad later =[

f*ck mexicans =[
 
Hey guys, so I have a friend that has a problem but he asked me to post it here because he doesn't want to make an account just to make a couple of posts here lol, so here we go.

always more fish in the sea. there are 3 and a half billion women on the planet, probably a couple million girls within 50 km of you if you live in a big city, if she is miss right, you'll be able to find a girl just as wonderful somewhere else.
 
always more fish in the sea. there are 3 and a half billion women on the planet, probably a couple million girls within 50 km of you if you live in a big city, if she is miss right, you'll be able to find a girl just as wonderful somewhere else.

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sry i had to
 
I disagree with choosing someone that's not a special individual to you though, lol. 8 is a fair number I guess
 
i like women =)

so, how many people are okay with sex with multiple partners, at one time? personally i've never been keen for the idea and don't know if i ever would be, barring intense incapacitation via substances and would have half the sense i normally do (but really even then i'd probably be too fucked up to do anything but lay on the floor), but who would be okay with the idea, totally sober and lucid? for me, even though i may enjoy kinky and rough sex, i only like enjoying it with one person at a time, and having more than one person in a sexual context (guy or girl, though i've never fooled around with a girl before) would sort of lessen the experience for me, since i'm more about quality of focusing on one person and pleasing them the best that i can rather than just having average in-your-face-from-all-directions sexathon with multiple people.

yay or nay?? i see a lot of girls that i'm in private facebook groups with talking about like, "wanting to set up a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend" and i know some people are okay with sort of objectifying sex to such a degree that all parties involved are okay with it, but i'm not sure i could ever be okay with such a thing, even if it was a one time thing. idk i probably think too much!!! but i'm curious as to how the rest of you feel :doom:
 
i have plenty of friends who have friends with benefits / has had 3somes and i really don't judge them for it because different people ahve different fantasies and needs.

altho there was one case where my friend had a threesome with two other people they knew and it turned out pretty messy i htink. feelings got involved and people were hurt and it was just awkward.

personally i'm not even ready to have a committed relationship / consensual sex with one person let alone a group or many different individuals haha.

what's everyone's opinion on sugar daddies/mummies?
 
[...] in-your-face-from-all-directions sexathon with multiple people. [...]

this is the fun part. i think i'd do it. well, i think of it quite often and even my BF would be ok with it, but I give it a lot of thought. I don't wanna "disappoint" the girl if it wounds up happening, but if it's another guy... I can already see how that would end really :}

sugar-daddies are awesome, although I've never had one. I think one guy tried though once but I was too young then.
 
re: Fishy's question, sex is more about love, passion, connection, that sort of thing so I wouldn't engage in more than a two-way any more than I'd go for a fwb situation, which is also something I personally don't care for.
 
Well being that I'm married I don't have to worry about decisions like this, but even as a single man I never was sold on the idea of having sex with multiple people at one time. I'd rather focus all my effort on one person to blow their mind rather than divide my attention and end up with two "meh" results.
 
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sry i had to


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482,000*.52 (eliminate women in relationships)
250,640*.5 (eliminate half for intelligence)
125320*.5 (eliminate half for sense of humor)
62660*.5 (eliminate half for compatibility)
31330*.92 (eliminate the lesbians, which apparently 8% of women in NYC identify as)
28823

Ted Mosby does not have 28815 Ex Girlfriends / Relatives living in NYC.

That comic is a SHAM.
 
how far along is she? i mean, it's pretty easy for a pregnant woman to find herself uncomfortable throughout the day, especially during sex. is she 'mentally' uncomfortable or actually physically uncomfortable during? regardless, there is no harm whatsoever to having pregnant sex than having regular baby free sex. you won't create any twins that pop out of the child's shoulder at birth, either
 
So, any tips on showing that I care/being a better boyfriend in general? Best friend and I have been trying to makes things work for a little over a month, but I repeatedly upset her by not picking up on cues when she wants emotional support and just not really showing that I care. I most certainly do care, but this kind of thing has never been easy for me and I'm seeing now just how little I do for her. Though I've told her how much she means to me, she believes that actions speak louder than words and feels that my actions paint a completely different picture. I'd like to get better at this to make her feel more important and hopefully worry less that I don't care about her.

I’ve already got some things in mind that I’ve come up with on my own, but I’d definitely appreciate any ideas/advice anyone would like to give. Thanks for any help.
 
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