no the goal is to squeeze the butt
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Serious Relationships and Sex Ed Thread
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no the goal is to squeeze the butt
Lol how is there even a debate here, even if you're not going to use a body part sexually, people (including women!) generally prefer all parts of the body to be sexually attractive to them. Or would you just prefer to be dating a disembodied pair of boobs, mouth, vagina, arsehole and whatever other body parts you use to get off? I'm sure introducing them to the parents would be a lot of fun.
Eww shit that happened at my school. Huge boobs and ass, but like a 0/10 face. Was really quite a shame, she had a decent personality.
lol
and yeah you're right....i have a hair fetish but i don't want to run my dick through strands of hair
Nah, I was just wondering if girls think some guys' butts are sexy.
2 things:
1) would you do that with boobs?
2) would it be incorrect of a woman to do that but with a butt?
actually 3 things: as other people have said, you can also do other stuff.
BUTT
certainly never done me any harm, except for the eccentric old woman at work who keeps grabbing my arse. i'm not sure if it's as much that a shapely butt is attractive or that a flat butt is one of the saddest sights in the world, when you wear jeans it's like a face without a smile
certainly never done me any harm, except for the eccentric old woman at work who keeps grabbing my arse. i'm not sure if it's as much that a shapely butt is attractive or that a flat butt is one of the saddest sights in the world, when you wear jeans it's like a face without a smile
My sister has an honorary black butt (according to one of her friends in dance in high school [where she was the only white girl]) so if I'm ever feeling ugly I just remind myself that I have a pretty sweet booty as well (although given that I don't have her gangster birthing hips I'm a little lacking)
I also really want to learn how to twerk, but it's harder than I imagined. I don't have many skills in the area of dance though so that might have something to do with it
oh hey unrelated question
Is it weird to be into both exhibitionism and voyeurism? It feels oxymoronic, like being into sub and dom at the same time.
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oh hey unrelated question
Is it weird to be into both exhibitionism and voyeurism? It feels oxymoronic, like being into sub and dom at the same time.
oh. i thought that was a weird thing... I enjoy both (exhibition/voyeur and sub/dom), it rocks being able to enjoy both roles.
edit: my sex life has gotten so much better after I've started exercising more and more. I thought it couldn't be any better but boy was I wrong.
edit: my sex life has gotten so much better after I've started exercising more and more. I thought it couldn't be any better but boy was I wrong.
^ slut!
idek if anyone is really gonna read this long ass post but I need an outlet and hopefully some of you guys read it and respond or something idk
so the guy I love and I made up and then he drops a bombshell on me, telling me he has a boyfriend as of 9 days ago. While I'm happy for him and all bc he's been through so much and he means the world to me, I can't help but be so upset for myself like what the fuck.
so done with life rn, it feels like it's one failure after another and I'm so frustrated. I've been lonely my whole life, nobody in high school (all 6 years of it) and while I seem sooo popular~*~*~ now, I am still lonely as fuck. I guess I'm lucky to have 3 or 4 of great girls that I absolutely adore and would go out of their way to do anything for me.
seriously though, I always think it's such a shameful thing to want to have another half but I'm starting to think otherwise. Who says you should be fully happy alone? You can have everything, achieve all your dreams but what does it matter if there's noone to share it with?
Highschool was a living nightmare where everyone hated me and I was physically abused so many times and threatened countless more times. No friends and the people I was closest to was a girl that I didn't really get to talk to much and my teachers. It's pretty fucking sad.
It took me 18 years to finally find some real friends, and it seemed like everyone in high school had a change of heart and gave me a chance (not that I needed the chance it) and I began being invited to every social event there is.
I was happy. I really was. I had found my true friends; the real friends, not acquaintances.
I thought I had finally found my place in this world. It only took 18 years but I got there.
And then I met this boy who I just instantly hit off with, got close, fell apart and I immediately went on a downward spiral. We tried fixing what we had for the longest time but it didn't work, and the relationship turned really toxic. We became friends again only because he knows I have a soft spot for him, and he played on my weaknesses.
And now he's with somebody else and I'm just so fucking torn because he IS my first love. I'll forever be there for him, no matter what. Such conflicted emotions and the thought of him with another guy makes me have a heart attack. How am I supposed to take this? I'm happy and sad at the same time.
Now I'm just left wondering why my social life is so slow compared to everyone elses. Everyone had friends from the moment they entered school, and had friends all throughout high school. Everyone got into relationships in high school.
So why is it that it took me 18 bloody years to find some sort of friend, and now that I've turned 20 as of yesterday, why I'm single?
I am as cute as a button, I have the personality. I just don't understand. I don't know where to meet people or begin?
Why is my social life at such a standstill compared to everyone elses? I'm tired of feeling lonely and I'm tired of pitying myself.
idek if anyone is really gonna read this long ass post but I need an outlet and hopefully some of you guys read it and respond or something idk
so the guy I love and I made up and then he drops a bombshell on me, telling me he has a boyfriend as of 9 days ago. While I'm happy for him and all bc he's been through so much and he means the world to me, I can't help but be so upset for myself like what the fuck.
so done with life rn, it feels like it's one failure after another and I'm so frustrated. I've been lonely my whole life, nobody in high school (all 6 years of it) and while I seem sooo popular~*~*~ now, I am still lonely as fuck. I guess I'm lucky to have 3 or 4 of great girls that I absolutely adore and would go out of their way to do anything for me.
seriously though, I always think it's such a shameful thing to want to have another half but I'm starting to think otherwise. Who says you should be fully happy alone? You can have everything, achieve all your dreams but what does it matter if there's noone to share it with?
Highschool was a living nightmare where everyone hated me and I was physically abused so many times and threatened countless more times. No friends and the people I was closest to was a girl that I didn't really get to talk to much and my teachers. It's pretty fucking sad.
It took me 18 years to finally find some real friends, and it seemed like everyone in high school had a change of heart and gave me a chance (not that I needed the chance it) and I began being invited to every social event there is.
I was happy. I really was. I had found my true friends; the real friends, not acquaintances.
I thought I had finally found my place in this world. It only took 18 years but I got there.
And then I met this boy who I just instantly hit off with, got close, fell apart and I immediately went on a downward spiral. We tried fixing what we had for the longest time but it didn't work, and the relationship turned really toxic. We became friends again only because he knows I have a soft spot for him, and he played on my weaknesses.
And now he's with somebody else and I'm just so fucking torn because he IS my first love. I'll forever be there for him, no matter what. Such conflicted emotions and the thought of him with another guy makes me have a heart attack. How am I supposed to take this? I'm happy and sad at the same time.
Now I'm just left wondering why my social life is so slow compared to everyone elses. Everyone had friends from the moment they entered school, and had friends all throughout high school. Everyone got into relationships in high school.
So why is it that it took me 18 bloody years to find some sort of friend, and now that I've turned 20 as of yesterday, why I'm single?
I am as cute as a button, I have the personality. I just don't understand. I don't know where to meet people or begin?
Why is my social life at such a standstill compared to everyone elses? I'm tired of feeling lonely and I'm tired of pitying myself.
if you're tired of pitying yourself, then stop. im not even kidding lol.
also, that whole my other-half/soulmate thing is romanticism/fantasy bullshit. you can be absolutely and completely happy being single. a relationship is a COMPLEMENT, not a requirement.
you're only like 19, you have WAY too much of your life ahead to worry about petty things such as not having a boyfriend. enjoy your bachelor years because they're also an important and fun part of your life.
and remember that to love someone else truly, first you've gotta love yourself.
also, so what if you think you were off to a "late-start"? not everyone is the same, and you don't have to fit in either. really, just be honest with yourself and do what you like.
and twerk dat ass
edit: also, youll get over him. dont give it much though, it'll pass, really.
also, that whole my other-half/soulmate thing is romanticism/fantasy bullshit. you can be absolutely and completely happy being single. a relationship is a COMPLEMENT, not a requirement.
you're only like 19, you have WAY too much of your life ahead to worry about petty things such as not having a boyfriend. enjoy your bachelor years because they're also an important and fun part of your life.
and remember that to love someone else truly, first you've gotta love yourself.
also, so what if you think you were off to a "late-start"? not everyone is the same, and you don't have to fit in either. really, just be honest with yourself and do what you like.
and twerk dat ass
edit: also, youll get over him. dont give it much though, it'll pass, really.
/agree. It's probably hard to not give it much thought, but hey, there's this: no skin off anyone's back if you're just incompatible on that close of a level -- like any other friendship. I wouldn't jump the gun that they don't enjoy and draw from your company as a friend, and you have a lot to share, but really, it sounds like they treated you with malice, so consider yourself.
i know i'll get over him it is sooo tough right now though because the wounds are still so fresh. I'm just in shock as well because I feel like I don't know him at all, like how can someone change so much in like 5 months!? It's literally a bombshell every time I think about him even being in a relationship.
it's nice to have closure though. I think the issue is just I can't stop dwelling on shit until it's completely out of my system (suffer from anxiety). I can't even do my favourite things without my mind completely drifting off!
and that's what I mean! It's like there's so much expectations to be happy being alone but it's also completely normal to feel so lonely argh
i've even thought about just having mindless hookups but I don't think it would make me feel any better. I'm a messssss ahhh gonna go get smashed withsome of my mates tonight
it's nice to have closure though. I think the issue is just I can't stop dwelling on shit until it's completely out of my system (suffer from anxiety). I can't even do my favourite things without my mind completely drifting off!
and that's what I mean! It's like there's so much expectations to be happy being alone but it's also completely normal to feel so lonely argh
i've even thought about just having mindless hookups but I don't think it would make me feel any better. I'm a messssss ahhh gonna go get smashed withsome of my mates tonight
Hi so yeah I'm kind of in the same boat? minus the whole loved and lost part. I didn't come out until after high school and didn't do any of the "cover dating", and I've yet to have what I'd call a boyfriend now in college.
It sucks that in order to find someone to date you literally have to either go to a gay club or sign up for a dating account online. There pretty much is no chance for a serendipitous happenstance of meeting another gay guy to date out in everyday life, at least that's what I've concluded. Unless you wear a sign that says "hi i'm gay and single please talk to me" or live in San Fran
I don't want just a fuck buddy or one night stand or all that, I just want a relationship. The sad part is it seems like gay culture is to "fuck first (a la Grindr or something), date later." How about we go on a date first like to a movie and then I'll sleep with you if I like you?
just kinda rambling but yeah you're not the only one that's kinda frustrated. getting smashed is always fun though, drink extra for me tonight :3
It sucks that in order to find someone to date you literally have to either go to a gay club or sign up for a dating account online. There pretty much is no chance for a serendipitous happenstance of meeting another gay guy to date out in everyday life, at least that's what I've concluded. Unless you wear a sign that says "hi i'm gay and single please talk to me" or live in San Fran
I don't want just a fuck buddy or one night stand or all that, I just want a relationship. The sad part is it seems like gay culture is to "fuck first (a la Grindr or something), date later." How about we go on a date first like to a movie and then I'll sleep with you if I like you?
just kinda rambling but yeah you're not the only one that's kinda frustrated. getting smashed is always fun though, drink extra for me tonight :3
yes! Bloody grindr where everyone is just looking for a quick fuck. It's really impossible to meet people unless you meet them through friends tbh.
There's this one guy in one of my tutorials that I'm pretty sure is gay. I don't really find him cute but I'm gonna go talk to him this week anyway. Really need a rebound of sorts as bad as that sounds, even if its just someone to talk to
ugh I'm such a mess! Day 3 of recovery and I still feel like shit, even though I tell myself that THIS IS GONNA BE THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF MY LIFE etc
There's this one guy in one of my tutorials that I'm pretty sure is gay. I don't really find him cute but I'm gonna go talk to him this week anyway. Really need a rebound of sorts as bad as that sounds, even if its just someone to talk to
ugh I'm such a mess! Day 3 of recovery and I still feel like shit, even though I tell myself that THIS IS GONNA BE THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF MY LIFE etc
I had a similar experience actually with my first love. I was a Senior in High School and she a Junior.
I was naive and incredibly stupid for not realizing her saying that she loved her ex actually meant she was still with him. Talk about fun: not really a good day when I finally figured it out.
When I confronted her with this, she totally smashed everything I felt for her in my face. Again, not a good day.
I will be honest, she quite helped me in my goal to get over her. The way it ended pretty much killed any and every feeling I had for her and any I ever will. I have found the best thing is to meet people, get to know new people, that helped me forget.
I was naive and incredibly stupid for not realizing her saying that she loved her ex actually meant she was still with him. Talk about fun: not really a good day when I finally figured it out.
When I confronted her with this, she totally smashed everything I felt for her in my face. Again, not a good day.
I will be honest, she quite helped me in my goal to get over her. The way it ended pretty much killed any and every feeling I had for her and any I ever will. I have found the best thing is to meet people, get to know new people, that helped me forget.