not sure if this is right place to talk about this kind of stuff, let alone even talking about it...
I used to be in alright terms with my sister, we never really argued, we never really had an issues really. But lately, she seemed so distant and tonight she lashed out at me about something simple and it lead to her saying she hates me.
I mean, it may be just blind anger when she said it to be tonight, or it could have been just as true as the title says. Ever since we moved to the new house and her room is right next to mine now (I used to have my room in the basement), she just scoffs and pretty much ignores me. I could say good morning to her and she wouldn't answer. I could ask her if she wants something to eat and she'll just answer me: Whatever or I don't care or not even an response. She told me that when I ask her stuff, it is "stupid questions" that everyone knows the answer to. Like, I ask her when does she need to get to work, since I needed a ride as well and I need to get ready for that when she gets out. She just seem so... different than I knew her. She even said "I'm tired of dealing with you" when I don't even have any idea what she is fucking talking about.
I don't want to "ignore" her, I love her, and I don't want me and her winded up not talking to each other as adults. I don't want that to happen. Sometimes I wonder if she never wanted to be my sister, just because she so bluntly ignores me on simple greetings or that she never answers when I just want to get her attention.
What should I do now?
I used to be in alright terms with my sister, we never really argued, we never really had an issues really. But lately, she seemed so distant and tonight she lashed out at me about something simple and it lead to her saying she hates me.
I mean, it may be just blind anger when she said it to be tonight, or it could have been just as true as the title says. Ever since we moved to the new house and her room is right next to mine now (I used to have my room in the basement), she just scoffs and pretty much ignores me. I could say good morning to her and she wouldn't answer. I could ask her if she wants something to eat and she'll just answer me: Whatever or I don't care or not even an response. She told me that when I ask her stuff, it is "stupid questions" that everyone knows the answer to. Like, I ask her when does she need to get to work, since I needed a ride as well and I need to get ready for that when she gets out. She just seem so... different than I knew her. She even said "I'm tired of dealing with you" when I don't even have any idea what she is fucking talking about.
I don't want to "ignore" her, I love her, and I don't want me and her winded up not talking to each other as adults. I don't want that to happen. Sometimes I wonder if she never wanted to be my sister, just because she so bluntly ignores me on simple greetings or that she never answers when I just want to get her attention.
What should I do now?