Alright, as the title of this thread suggests, I'm a tiny bit confused. But before I get into why, I'll give you a bit of background about myself.
I am currently a grade 12 student, aiming to graduate from my high school at the end of this year. My school, like our community, is very small, and everyone knows each other. Our school has very little problems with gossip, rumours, and bullying, a trait that is quite rare for high school. So, my grad class is very accepting, and always treat new students well, and help them to quickly get used to it here (I will touch on this later). My grad class really do not have any qualms with each other, and no one seems to really dislike anyone else. We still have our own groups, and no one from one group really knows very much about someone from another group, however.
Now, before I begin, I will say that this is NOT one of those coming out threads. I am not gay. That's not to say that I have anything against people who are gay, but that is not the purpose of this thread. Now, onto why I am confused.
So, it's high school. I've had crushes before, and have had a girlfriend once, but that was four years ago. However, ever since Grade 9, I've liked one particular girl. Her name I will keep secret, but I will call her K throughout the rest of this post. So, as I've said, I've liked this girl, K, since grade 9. And I mean I really like her. Anyways, I've wanted to go out with her for a long time, but have never had the balls to ask her out, which sucks for me. Now it's my grade 12 year, and I'm afraid that if I don't do it now, I won't ever have a chance, and will have to spend the rest of my life wondering what would have happened. The main problem is K and I have very little in common. She's athletic, popular, and pretty, while I'm completely out of shape, kind of an outcast, and average at best. I'm afraid that this relationship will not work because of these differences, which, along with many other reasons, is why I have not yet asked her out.
So, you've heard about my problem with K, and what I want to do, so I'm done, right? Wrong. This is where things get complicated on my end.
Growing up, I've known most of my classmates my entire life, with some new kids that generally come once every few years, who are surprisingly quickly adapted into our grade's social spectrum. One of these new kids is a girl, who's name will also remain undisclosed, but who I will refer to as J. J came to the school at the beginning of this year, and, like most other new students, was welcome with open arms into our class. Now, this is where the main problem comes in. Despite having been here only a few months, I've started to develop feelings for her, in addition to my feelings for K. I've talked to her a few times, and she is a really nice person. She's great, which only makes my problem worse. Not only that, but J is a lot like K, pretty, popular, and athletic.
So, Smogon, this is where you come in. What should I do? I like two girls, one who has been in my grade my entire life, another who has just come here this year. Should I ask one of them out? If so, which one? Should I even ask either of them out at all? If you could give me even a bit of an idea of what to do, I would greatly appreciate it.
I am currently a grade 12 student, aiming to graduate from my high school at the end of this year. My school, like our community, is very small, and everyone knows each other. Our school has very little problems with gossip, rumours, and bullying, a trait that is quite rare for high school. So, my grad class is very accepting, and always treat new students well, and help them to quickly get used to it here (I will touch on this later). My grad class really do not have any qualms with each other, and no one seems to really dislike anyone else. We still have our own groups, and no one from one group really knows very much about someone from another group, however.
Now, before I begin, I will say that this is NOT one of those coming out threads. I am not gay. That's not to say that I have anything against people who are gay, but that is not the purpose of this thread. Now, onto why I am confused.
So, it's high school. I've had crushes before, and have had a girlfriend once, but that was four years ago. However, ever since Grade 9, I've liked one particular girl. Her name I will keep secret, but I will call her K throughout the rest of this post. So, as I've said, I've liked this girl, K, since grade 9. And I mean I really like her. Anyways, I've wanted to go out with her for a long time, but have never had the balls to ask her out, which sucks for me. Now it's my grade 12 year, and I'm afraid that if I don't do it now, I won't ever have a chance, and will have to spend the rest of my life wondering what would have happened. The main problem is K and I have very little in common. She's athletic, popular, and pretty, while I'm completely out of shape, kind of an outcast, and average at best. I'm afraid that this relationship will not work because of these differences, which, along with many other reasons, is why I have not yet asked her out.
So, you've heard about my problem with K, and what I want to do, so I'm done, right? Wrong. This is where things get complicated on my end.
Growing up, I've known most of my classmates my entire life, with some new kids that generally come once every few years, who are surprisingly quickly adapted into our grade's social spectrum. One of these new kids is a girl, who's name will also remain undisclosed, but who I will refer to as J. J came to the school at the beginning of this year, and, like most other new students, was welcome with open arms into our class. Now, this is where the main problem comes in. Despite having been here only a few months, I've started to develop feelings for her, in addition to my feelings for K. I've talked to her a few times, and she is a really nice person. She's great, which only makes my problem worse. Not only that, but J is a lot like K, pretty, popular, and athletic.
So, Smogon, this is where you come in. What should I do? I like two girls, one who has been in my grade my entire life, another who has just come here this year. Should I ask one of them out? If so, which one? Should I even ask either of them out at all? If you could give me even a bit of an idea of what to do, I would greatly appreciate it.