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Moony took four days to answer my initial VM, then suggested that we play that same day (Monday). I said "maybe," because it was short notice, then showed up on Smogtours at the suggested time. After waiting 90 minutes, I left, and asked Moony to name another time. Moony said 1 pm EDT any day, or any time Saturday, and I said that 1 pm Saturday (two hours ago) should work. Moony never responded, which I took as implicit agreement to play at that time.
Even if you disagree with me about that last part, I think it's clear which of us has put more effort into scheduling. I'm still on Smogtours and able to play, but I'm calling activity if we don't get this done.
I scheduled with my oppo on PS! a week ago but everytime I ask him to play he avoids me saying things like "i'm a bit tired now". Now he just disappeared.