Hot Takes

Crux

Banned deucer.
Hello, this is a thread to post your hot takes on (hopefully, leftist) politics. The most spice we have in Cong these days is yelling at each other in the Dem Primary thread, and this is getting tired. Here is a thread where you can truly let people know what you think of them! Please make sure your takes are actually spicy and not just racist. Attack other people’s hot takes if you disagree!

Here are some of mine to start us off:

All kink that involves any kind of domination/submission is immoral.

Just because you engage in sex privately and consensually does not make it apolitical. The way that we treat each other in intimate situations is fundamentally bound up in the same power relations that we would decry as oppressive outside of the bedroom. When you dominate a partner, you degrade them and set yourself up in a relation of power over them that is not actually extricable from your other interactions with them. Both partners internalise at least some part of this dynamic and it cannot help but colour the rest of their interactions. Even if you “leave it in the bedroom” a) it is not clear to me that a line can be drawn between that and other experiences of intimacy that you have, making them also subject to the power relation and b) the line is fundamentally arbitrary and ambiguous – power dynamics have a way of expanding to other interactions.

Kink play of this kind is also not extricable from other power relations. Dominant/submissive roles between, for instance, men and women where the former is dominant are so heavily bound up in the power relations of gender that they are nearly always misogynist. And where those roles are reversed, they do not challenge gender but merely compound it in a perverse parody that returns to normal once they have gotten off on fetishising the same (but inverted) power dynamics that make gender so oppressive in the first place. The same is true of homophobia, racism etc. in relations where that is a part of the kink play. Even relationships that initially appear absent of these power relations mimic and fetishise the adjacent power structures (eg gay men sub/dom play) and import them into their relationship.

None of this is to say people can’t notionally consent to these things and derive enjoyment from them. The fact that this is often the case does not make such power relations immoral.

This interview with Audre Lorde gives a different account of a similar perspective that I think is worth reading:

https://www.feministes-radicales.or...orde-Sadomasochism-not-about-condamnation.pdf

In order to be non-binary, you must experience dysphoria.

By dysphoria, here, I mean a need or desire to transition. Recently, there have been a large group of people who identify as non-binary claiming some combination of the following: 1) you do not need to have dysphoria to be non-binary 2) even if you did, it would not demand transition 3) some kind of “gender euphoria” is sufficient and 4) people should identify how they want.

In the case of 1), then the concept of non-binary identity is incoherent. Being merely dissatisfied with your gender role is a pretty common experience among most cis people (especially women), and you would not be able to distinguish between these two feelings. Given diversity in gender expression and identity within the broad categories “man” and “woman”, without dysphoria your identity is meaningless as it reduces to just a series of deviations from a norm, which is not sufficient for a new categorization.

2) is also incoherent. It is not clear to me how you could define dysphoria without a desire to transition. That is not to say that it requires a medical transition, there are many ways that this identity could come to be expressed by resolving dysphoria, but a desire to transition is both a necessary and sufficient condition for dysphoria, by definition.

3) is the attempt to resolve 1) without dysphoria. It is also incoherent as it implies some initial state by which to judge an improvement (i.e. it reduces to dysphoria conceptually). Simply being happy with a change in your gender expression remains distinct from being non-binary.

4) Sorry, but you’re not valid.

You actually do have an obligation to educate people.

Recent leftist trends where people, when asked for information or to explain something, reply that they have no obligation to do so, or “Google is free” are wrong to do so.

It cannot be both the case that these people have special information by virtue of their experiences, and the case that they have no obligation to share that information. Alternative sources lack the nuance that their understandings supposedly have, are likely to be less persuasive, and are often actively harmful (try Googling anything about being non-binary lol). In nearly all other cases, we acknowledge that people in a position where they have unique authority or information have an obligation to share that information, and it is often crucial to how movements function in setting their goals and educating allies. Passing the buck even if you are tired and fed up with providing that information is unacceptable and failing in your obligation to educate. This probably does not extend to cases of extreme belligerence / insouciance, as the level of effort and likelihood of success probably impact the degree of obligation you have, but otherwise the obligation stands. The fact that there is “emotional labour” involved, or that the person being asked to educate might be oppressed does not change the nature of the obligation – especially given that they can choose how and when they respond.

Stalin was probably not responsible for Holodomor famines.

Attempts at collectivisation of farm land and produce in the region were managed incredibly poorly, and the central committee certainly set standards for grain yields too high. But the kulaks burning livestock and crops, as well as unprecedented bad weather in a region with an agricultural industry entirely subject to the vicissitudes of its climate are what caused the famine. Stalinist policy was neither targeted nor intentional in harming Ukrainians, and while the crisis may have been foreseeable, claiming that this was a deliberate genocide or that Stalin is responsible, given the factors I have outlined above, is simply wrong. As a result, his death count should be substantially lower, and there is good evidence that this particular alleged failing of the Soviet regime was spread by Nazis and Nazi sympathisers living abroad. This is, however, about as far as my tanky inclinations go.
 
Hello! Nice to meet you.

Completely agree with your sentiment on domination/submission "kinks". I would like to add that I personally think choking women during sex is absolutely immoral and misogynistic. It is completely disgusting that this specific kink is normalised and accepted within society when the whole premise of the kink is degrading to women. I personally think most dominant kinks are inherently misogynistic and are not enjoyed by most women. I feel like most women have just come to accept them and follow through with them so they don't disappoint their partners during sex. If you choke your girlfriend/wife during sex then you are misogynistic. There isn't any other way to go about it. Women don't like being choked during sex and go along with it to please partners out of fear.

My personal hot take is that I think it is sexist to support the porn industry and thus supporting sex work as a whole. To clarify, I am not bigoted towards sex workers, I am AGAINST the premise of sex work because it normalises the objectification of women and turns men into pornsick creeps. Normalising porn consumption gives men more reason to objectify us and portray their fantasies displayed in porn in the bedroom which leads many women to feel pressured into acting out this fantasy so they don't upset their partner. I also think women who put up with their partners consuming porn are blind and need to be reeducated.
 
Apologies for the double post but I just want to add one more opinion. Israel is not a valid state. It was ripped from the hands of the palestinian people and should not exist. Anyone who disagrees is validating the slaughter of thousands of innocent lives and is also validating the annexing of an entire country. Free Palestine.
 

yeezyknows

Banned deucer.
There is a post going around on reddit.com talking about "Covid Karen" who spreads the disease "with her sense of entitlement." Now the pandemic is another thing blamed on women.

Last I checked, it's mostly women who are staying home with their children, working as nurses and doctors on the frontlines, and surviving abusive relationships because now there's no escape. Many women work at grocery stores, putting their lives on the line. They work in the service and retail industries that are currently being decimated by this virus.

What about Covid Caleb who doesn't wash his hands and ignores shelter-in-place orders? Or Covid Colton who doesn't cover his mouth when he coughs? Or Covid Chris who went to the beaches during spring break? It's always easier to blame women than to hold men accountable for their actions.
 
SARS-CoV-2 (otherwise known as COVID-19 to you dummies) is a bioweapon engineered in China and is going to inevitably lead to World War 3 and China blown off the map.
With all due respect, this "take" (if you can even call it that) is incredibly sinophobic and just shows how you fall for propaganda pushed by MAGA boomers on twitter. Holding this opinion is incredibly intolerant, people like you are the reason why racism is so rampant against all asians, not just Chinese, across the west.

Despite what western propaganda would have you believe, the CCP's handling of this pandemic has been absolutely phenomenal. They acted fast and did what they needed to do to protect their citizens and limit spread. This is blatantly obvious if you look at the cases recorded in Asia this literally confirms it. China worked quickly and effectively with countries within Asia to minimise outbreak within the continent and limit spread to other continents. I find your blatant intolerance disturbing and just plain uninformed. Stop falling for US imperialist bullshit.
 

ILoveMilk

Banned deucer.
I think Ben Shapiros a bitch and a clown of the highest order as well as a massive goober but I’m willing to put all that aside because his sister is hot as shit. I’m serious, his sister is orders of magnitude better looking than him. It’s hard to believe they’re related but I’d bust fat loads all over her even knowing she shares Bens decrepit DNA. I’m on the left and have been all my life but Ben Shapiros sister is honestly making me question that, Ben you have destroyed me with facts and your hot sister.
 

NG Spencer

Banned deucer.
My wife and I have been into the cuckolding for a long time. She loved me, but to be honest I didn't have the right "size requirement" to fully satisfy her. I suffer from ED. So when she brought up that she wanted to do out and do some experimenting, well I was against it at first. But after a few weeks of my, well to be frank sub-par performances I decided I would be okay with letting her live a little.

I'm man enough than I can handle my wife going out and having some fun. Well, I thought I was man enough. Turns out, my wife's boyfriend is a Trump supporter. This has sickened me. I have literally thrown up twice after hearing it. I campaigned hard for Bernie. I donated $27 over 30 times. And when he lost I put my head down in my wife's lap and cried. I'm not sure what to do now.

I am okay with my wife going around and finding other men to satisfy her, after all in the late hours of the morning she comes back to me. I am the true winner. However I'm scared to bring it up because I don't want her to leave me. But I also don't want another child to raise from a father who supports Trump, though it seems more and more likely every day...
 

Myzozoa

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My personal hot take is that I think it is sexist to support the porn industry and thus supporting sex work as a whole. To clarify, I am not bigoted towards sex workers, I am AGAINST the premise of sex work because it normalises the objectification of women and turns men into pornsick creeps. Normalising porn consumption gives men more reason to objectify us and portray their fantasies displayed in porn in the bedroom which leads many women to feel pressured into acting out this fantasy so they don't upset their partner. I also think women who put up with their partners consuming porn are blind and need to be reeducated.
i agree w most of this except that the premise of sex work normalizes objectification of women, a part of me would almost say it is capitalism itself that is responsible for this, but that may sound dismissive. in any case sex workers still are women who I think are in need of much support and advocacy and who's situation is important to consider for confronting many aspects of misogyny. I am also ambivalent about your last sentence, it seems to imply that the problem is women tolerating their husbands watching porn which seems an improper place to locate the blame. i am mostly ambivalent about porn but at the minimum it seems unlikely to be the root factor causing the objectification of women, although it has instantiated some very harmful forms, I have to once again assert that it is capitalism itself, by forcing women to trade their bodies for survival, that leads to the most vile forms of objectification and violation of women's bodies.
 
i agree w most of this except that the premise of sex work normalizes objectification of women, a part of me would almost say it is capitalism itself that is responsible for this, but that may sound dismissive. in any case sex workers still are women who I think are in need of much support and advocacy and who's situation is important to consider for confronting many aspects of misogyny. I am also ambivalent about your last sentence, it seems to imply that the problem is women tolerating their husbands watching porn which seems an improper place to locate the blame. i am mostly ambivalent about porn but at the minimum it seems unlikely to be the root factor causing the objectification of women, although it has instantiated some very harmful forms, I have to once again assert that it is capitalism itself, by forcing women to trade their bodies for survival, that leads to the most vile forms of objectification and violation of women's bodies.
I agree! I think the main issue is capitalism itself, I (personally) don't think its dismissive to say so. I agree with you on the point that yes my last sentence is incorrectly blaming women, its very late in Spain currently and I haven't gotten any sleep so you'll have to excuse my poor choice of wording. The point I was trying to get across is that I feel like some women unwillingly put up with their partners watching porn and actually think its acceptable in a relationship. I think the root cause of this is lead to how a lot of women in past relationships have been incorrectly taught that this is a normal thing to do. However I think some woman (I have a handful of friends who believe this) are adamant towards the fact that porn consumption is normal in relationships and I personally think they are blind to the damage it does. Also I didn't mean to come off as anti sex worker in my post, I think living in a society which adheres to capitalism will always put desperate people (mainly women) into a position where they will have to become sex workers.
 

Magan Jerry

Banned deucer.
"Open book exams" are total bullshit

These exams make it so you don't have to study at all, because you can just look up the answer in your textbook. What's the point of going to class then? Those of us who actually study and understand the material our punished for our efforts while slackers and class cutters get to pass for free, just so schools can inflate their grades. It pisses me off.

Trump is right to call it a "Chinese Flu"

The MSM has launched another smear campaign against the President, this time it's to paint him as "racist" for calling Coronavirus a Chinese Flu which is factual. Many Chinese people have come out in support of this term and have themselves criticized the Chinese government for its mishandling of this novel virus resulting in global spread. If the media cared about the American people they would be reporting on senators like Dianne Feinstein dumping their stocks before the Chinese Flu hit our shores for millions of dollars in profit, instead we simply got more identity politics to distract from this. Pathetic.

People who use terms like "chonker", "doggo", "heckin" and others need to grow up

This stuff was annoying when it first came out but now it's down right retarded. SERIOUSLY? If it's 2020 and you're still using these words or think they're cute, YOU are fucking stupid and need to go back to Reddit, do not pass go, do not collect $1200, just go directly to Reddit where you belong. KYS.
 

SergioRules

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Want to argue against dom/sub relationships being misogynistic but can't do so without way oversharing and if my gf ever happened to find out, she'd kill me so I'll just say one thing that doesn't apply to my relationship. Most of the anti-sub/dom relationship arguments here haven't really taken into account non-hetero relationships which can be completely different obviously. Also consent is key, and certain situations (namely choking) are not always rooted in male pleasure or domination fantasy.

Anyway, my hot take is that most people consider the three main things for humans to survive are 1) food, 2) water, 3) shelter. So therefore, all three of those should be free to the public and have basic guaranteed standards of quality. Sucks especially that access to clean drinking water isn't considered a basic human right but I think all three of these should just be given to everyone and American society would greatly benefit from this.

inb4 people calling me a communist
 

PDC

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People who use terms like "chonker", "doggo", "heckin" and others need to grow up

This stuff was annoying when it first came out but now it's down right retarded. SERIOUSLY? If it's 2020 and you're still using these words or think they're cute, YOU are fucking stupid and need to go back to Reddit, do not pass go, do not collect $1200, just go directly to Reddit where you belong. KYS.
you are completely correct i agree 100% we need to bring gulags back for these people
 

Myzozoa

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You will be needing a box of tissues so you can coom in it after I fuck your wife, soiboi
typical redpilled overly online hs student: pretends to hate socialism but openly calls for redistribution of the wives.


honestly im not sure whether to be comforted or worried that your attempt to insult me has so thoroughly mis-recognized a person such as myself, i can't really feel offended, and yet there seems to be some sort of invective behind your comment. since you used the word 'wife', I found myself considering a hot take:

marriage is fundamentally about who inherits rich people's property and controlling women's bodies. marriage is a legal contract which until very recently was most concerned with regulating 3 areas: the possession of a women's womb, the identification of any children the women's womb produced, and inheritance of property. It is also imbricated in various legal ways with the history of slavery law, although I am no legal studies expert and that type of historical analysis is something I have never looked at (remember this is supposed to be a hot take thread, you get what you get). It wasn't until some time as early as the late 19th century that marriage came to be thought of as an equal contract where a women would also own some property (including their husbands dick according to the legendary bachelor Emmanuel Kant, who wrote "Marriage is an agreement as to the mutual possession of each parties' genital attributes", quoted from memory). Marriage is some archaic oppressive institution is my point and as such I would prefer not to have any part of it. In fact, adultery/rape first existed in the history of state crimes as a property crime...with rape of a spouse being considered illegible from such a perspective enshrined in the law long after marriage was seemingly made more equal in regards to how it treated the gender of the parties married.
 
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Want to argue against dom/sub relationships being misogynistic but can't do so without way oversharing and if my gf ever happened to find out, she'd kill me so I'll just say one thing that doesn't apply to my relationship. Most of the anti-sub/dom relationship arguments here haven't really taken into account non-hetero relationships which can be completely different obviously. Also consent is key, and certain situations (namely choking) are not always rooted in male pleasure or domination fantasy.
I second this, and I have no problem over sharing because no one loves me lol.

Hot takes on this appear to be just people assigning motivations to these kinks from they’re own perspective, rather than actually understanding them. As someone who has choked and been choked, dommed and subbed, been submissive to women, been dominant over men, been too shy to exercise control, been unwilling to be controlled... these “hot takes” are narrow and over simplified.

Can already tell this thread is gonna be a doozy lol

also, porn is not exclusively the domain of male satisfaction and female objectification. I objectify men in the porn I watch, frankly, as do dozens of women in my life who openly discuss their porn habits with me, many of which engage in and create erotic and/or plain NASTY art and fan fiction which IS pornographic even if it is also artistic. This is to say nothing of people (both male and female) who themselves get off on the exhibitionism and do not feel wrongly objectified.
 
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Crux

Banned deucer.
Clambats and SergioRules

I agree that historical context and power relations in LGBT relations are often different and would caveat that my analysis of kink in these relationships would likely be different (I was starting a Hot Take thread I needed it to be HOT and my expectation that a discussion of this might be too much for Cong has been proven above.)

I would say, however, that uncritical views of LGBT kink remain wrong for the reasons in my OP, and that additional (and much more eloquent and intelligent) critiques are made in the Audre Lorde interview I linked in the OP that are very interesting and specifically about kink in LGBT and other marginalised groups.
 
Love this thread; I think I disagree with almost everything posted.

Here's some of mine.

Being outraged is addictive.
I think the media baits this one a lot. It's easy to get worked up about minor things others do that could never affect you.
I think there's 3-4 hot takes already in this thread that are needlessly angry at how other people behave, probably based off negative interactions with one person.
Being easily outraged also intensifies labeling. That is, being outraged at some 'other' requires rigid criteria for what is an isn't acceptable.

Being offended for someone else does more harm than good.
I'm not arguing against compassion or empathy here, but I think it's far easier to overstep when you feel like you're doing it for someone else.
 
Despite what western propaganda would have you believe, the CCP's handling of this pandemic has been absolutely phenomenal. They acted fast and did what they needed to do to protect their citizens and limit spread. This is blatantly obvious if you look at the cases recorded in Asia this literally confirms it. China worked quickly and effectively with countries within Asia to minimise outbreak within the continent and limit spread to other continents. I find your blatant intolerance disturbing and just plain uninformed. Stop falling for US imperialist bullshit.
They sat on it for 2 months, and tried to silence anyone who tried to warn people.
Then they pressured international organizations like the WHO to tell people not to close international travel to China.
Sure they finally their shit together after 2 months (which is still way better than how the US has handled it).

The countries that have done the best job containing the virus are those that always knew China was full of shit. Taiwan and South Korea have easily done the best job containing it. Japan and Singapore have also done extremely well, considering the amount of international traffic they get from China.
 
Oh, hot takes sure.

I have a few but I guess I'll start with this one since I think it's not that uncommon:

Society would be better off without religion.

No genocides based on what belief set people happened to follow or be born into. No reliance on something that has not and likely cannot be proven. No divine right of rule. No ingrained subservience to something that can't be proved to be there. No money-sucking from people or governments that could use it for vital programs. No extreme tribalism based on interpretations of sacred texts or rituals.
Etc.

On top of that, the positive functions that religion has can be attained by something else in my opinion-
The formation of communities and gatherings can be based on mutual held interests or recreational activites.
Meaning and purpose can be found on Earth rather than being tied to something after death that isn't even guaranteed.
Consciousness and morality could be debated and thought over rather than granted as-is.

I don't know how we'd get to a religion-free society though and I don't advocate for forcing people off their religious beliefs. But I think that if we ever did somehow become a religion-less society, we'd be better off.
 

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