You know what's -really- shitty? Harassing a person into committing suicide for having a preference that literally affected no one but herself and thinking it's justified.Outlaw - that's such an obtuse outlook. a lot of behaviors are informed by racist/homophobic/fatphobic/transphobic etc. systems. no one is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to sleep anyone. people are however allowed to critique and make known these very behaviors and dominant ideologies because, hey, they're shitty!! if you 'prefer' dating white people, that's your prerogative - but you can't think that these preferences are isolated from hegemonic cultural norms.
Attraction isn't controllable. What one finds pretty is rarely going to be the same for all. People have types, they have preferences, they're attracted to whatever is their fancy and they aren't racist/homophic/fatphobic/transphobic/whateverphobic for having them. It's just what they like.