@OP: usually, the preferred method of dealing with this dilemma is called a "duel." I'll spell it out for you.
Rules:
1) Both players are given a loaded gun with a single bullet loaded in the chamber
2) Each player takes ten paces opposite the other
3) Once your ten paces have been taken, take a shot!
4) Whoever dies first loses
"But Vader! I am a monstrously stupid (BAN ME PLEASE) and will certainly lose in combat to my friend!"
Fear not, fledgling failure! I have devised several potential scenarios which you may prepare for:
1) Your opponent is a scholarly old gentleman who wields a cane as his weapon of choice:
As you can see, I have generously lent you my Giant Crayon weapon. It is easily capable of dispatching any scholarly gentlemen who wish to take your precious damsel from you!
2) Your opponent is a small chinese man (woman? I can never tell):
In figure2, you have armed yourself with the bane of disobedient children of all flavors: the belt. The chinese (wo)man cowers in fear due to his (her?) repressed memories flooding back. At that point, you are free to ravage (not ravish, if you catch my drift!) your prized wench.
3) Your opponent is australian:
Against an Australian, anonymity is your best bet because they can remember faces for generations, unless those are crows. I cannot recall which is which at the moment. And what better way to express anonymity than with the face of the internet's most notorious shithole? You are bringing down your katana for the final stroke of an epic battle against this kangaroo-fucking aussie's boomerang. NOTE: if you are not a master of swordplay as I am, perhaps you would be better served wielding your tears. I am sure they are ample to drown a foe who still fights with archaic weaponry like the boomerang!
I hope this has been helpful!