Ed Balls
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I think 'Relationships and Balls Ed Thread' is a better name for this thread.
ahahahaha you're fucking adorableIt isn't more correct, I just prefer it over gay :p like some people prefer cheese pizza over pepporoni pizza :p
you're confused dear, waterbomb isn't calling you a troll, and chinchou doesn't care about being called a guy or dude or man or whatever he just prefers to be called a homsexual as opposed to gay because it sounds fancier or someshitYou didn't answer my question regarding whether you don't like to be called a guy/dude
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@WaterBomb-- as mentioned, I'm not intending to troll, but asking with serious curiosity. I honestly don't know. I don't know how to make it clear that I'm asking genuinely, and not flippantly.
Too true, all of it. I'd also like to add that if you are hunting for a partner, not only will you pick the first one that looks like it will "satiate your hunger" rather than finding a real gem, but you may come off as desperate, attract sleazebags/undesirable people and the other sex will have less respect for you. If you just go about with your life you never know what's around the corner. It's much more attractive to the other gender if you aren't hunting, you're content with your situation and have confidence in yourself.A few things I learned about relationships in my short 20 years of life:
1. Either you break up with them, or you stay with them forever. If you start a relationship, you better be looking for one or the other to begin with.
2.How much you care about someone has very little to do with how much you like having them around. An easier check would be how upset you get with them when they fail themselves.
3. Actively looking for a relationships tends to hinder your judgement. If you go hunting because you are hungry, you won't pick the best catch. Rather, you'll pick the first one that looks like it will satiate your hunger. Better to simply go about your life and wait for one so outstanding you can't help ignore it.
Busy schedule should never impede your ability to date. If you really connect with a person and want to be with them, you will FIND time in your schedule to do so. An hour isn't all that far as long as you both can drive, since you can meet at places in the middle for dates and such. If you both want to date, just do it. Your motivation to see one another will give you clues to whether you're meant to be or not.Is it worth my time dating a girl with a very busy schedule who lives almost hour an away at 18?
I feel like I need a reality check and yahoo answers just isn't cutting it tonight.
"a girl."Is it worth my time dating a girl with a very busy schedule who lives almost hour an away at 18?
I feel like I need a reality check and yahoo answers just isn't cutting it tonight.
Lots of talking really lets you sift through what the person is like, and gives you a much clearer picture of them. Being able to communicate often lets you make much more sound judgements of their character. Use text, skype, or facebook. Heck, maybe you have an advantage through the distance. (The closer she is to you, the harder it is to think, amiright guys? Ahehehe.) To keep the energy in the relationship, make sure you do see her at least once a week to hang out for a while, or for several short periods of time if that's all you can manage. But basically, if you maintain continuous communication with her and meet consistently then the small distance shouldn't be a problem.Take a drink every time somebody's problem is solved with more communication!
going to need a lot more information here. can either of you drive? reliably? how busy is busy? how often would you get to go on dates? is that an amount you're comfortable with? do you like her? how much? have you liked other people more than her? if someone you liked a little less than her appeared half a mile down the street would part of you really want to get with them instead? ask yourself all this.Is it worth my time dating a girl with a very busy schedule who lives almost hour an away at 18?
I feel like I need a reality check and yahoo answers just isn't cutting it tonight.
Not just that, but communication really is is the key to solving problems.. Talking to each other, understanding where each other is coming from and working it out together. Two people will never think the same way by default so you need to communicate to solve anything. Nobody is perfect and things will surface that bother you about the other person. With your partner you need to appreciate the good, accept the not so good, communicate to solve your problems and understand that you aren't perfect either!"a girl."
Well gee, it doesn't sound like you know her very well. If you said "a girl I met at my favorite place ever" or "a girl I started talking to and really connected with" then you'd have a clear reason to overcome that barrier. Really, it's just not a lot of information to go on at all.
But, assuming this is just some good looking person you kinda know who seems interested in you, there's one thing to really focus on to overcome the distance:
Lots of talking really lets you sift through what the person is like, and gives you a much clearer picture of them. Being able to communicate often lets you make much more sound judgements of their character. Use text, skype, or facebook. Heck, maybe you have an advantage through the distance. (The closer she is to you, the harder it is to think, amiright guys? Ahehehe.) To keep the energy in the relationship, make sure you do see her at least once a week to hang out for a while, or for several short periods of time if that's all you can manage. But basically, if you maintain continuous communication with her and meet consistently then the small distance shouldn't be a problem.
Reminds me of another thing I've learned: Everyone sounds like a much cooler person than they are in the first few months of getting to know them. Everyone has faults and problems though. Bringing up your own can be a good way to make others feel comfortable revealing what they believe are their flaws. (hooray for honesty and stuff)
Oh, I also assume that everyone dates seriously. If you just want the chemical high of bodily contact, then there are probably other good or better looking people who are easier to reach.
stop taking advice from strangers online about what is obviously a medical issue and tell her to see a doctorMy girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, we're both 19 years old. I recently took her virginity and have some questions.
Her hymen has been broken for a couple years but she lost her virginity to me in the beginning of August. Since then we've had sex about 6 or 7 times. The first time we had sex it hurt her a lot but she was wet enough that we could do it for a while before she told me to stop. She described the feeling as a stinging feeling with some cramps. It was pretty much the same the second time as well. By the third time the stinging feeling was gone, but she says that she still experiences occasional "cramps" as well as a consistent feeling of soreness(for lack of a better word to describe it, she says). I don't know if it's because we have been having sex too much. There has been at least one day separating each time we've done it.
I never have a problem fitting inside her, I'm of average size and there is always a lot of foreplay so that she's usually very wet once we start. Is this normal? Are there any ways to make it more pleasurable and less painful for her, or is it just a matter of her getting used to it? I guess this isn't the best place to ask since there are certainly more guys than girls on this site, but I figure maybe some of you have had similar experiences with your partners and could share some insight.
quoted for truth. If you don't have the money to see a doctor I'd suggest taking some time off until she "heals" like the poster above cookie said.stop taking advice from strangers online about what is obviously a medical issue and tell her to see a doctor