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I'm voting no. Sorry Kristy, but I didn't think you were old enough to vote >_>
 
This doesn't affect me - I live in Australia, but sorry I'm disagreeing. I'm Christian and don't believe in same-sex marriages.

Gays can love each other, I have no problem with that, I think it's wrong, but it's their choice and I will tolerate that. But to be joined in a homosexual union recognised by the church and the government to me is just wrong.

I'll definitely offend some people, and for this I apologise in advance.
 
Tolerance doesn't mean it has to harm you, it means you don't like it. When you go over to someone's house for dinner, there is a chance they will serve you something you don't like. It is however, impolite to refuse to eat what is put before you, so you eat it anyways. You're tolerating something you don't like. Eating things you don't like isn't going to kill you, obviously.

Your beliefs are intolerant.

So... would I be a coward if I didn't stand up and say "I HATE BROCOLLI, I HOPE YOU ALL DIE HORRIBLY FOR FEEDING IT TO ME!"

That's ridiculously over the top and not even a suitable comparison. Refusing to eat that dinner because you hate broccoli is a small issue of interpersonal offence. One's position on this issue is a matter, if you care, is about your beliefs. Also, in that case, that person has cooked you a dinner -- it is a gift in a way from them and it's considered polite to accept. I fail to see how gifts apply to this.

No, obviously I wouldn't. There is a huge difference between keeping your opinion to yourself, and being a coward. If declining to say something means you are protecting their feelings from being hurt, then don't say it.

You don't like my sexual preference.

It's OK. I'm old enough to handle it like a man. It offends me more that you think you're protecting me from something by sitting on the fence and refusing to justify your own beliefs to me.

Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. I smile and nod, say "good for you". If they are happy, that's all that matters. It's not my business anyways.

You're making it your business in this thread. Obviously you shouldn't go up to them and say 'You're a (BAN ME PLEASE)! Burn in hell,' but this is a Cong thread. Either post what you think truly or don't bother trying to please what you think the majority is yet stick true to yourself. People who try to go both ways tend to just piss off both people anyway.

@Anti:

Have you heard the news?
The dogs are dead!
You better stay home
And do as you're told
Get out of the road if you want to grow old.
 
Tolerance doesn't mean it has to harm you, it means you don't like it.
harm/you dont like are often the same thing! harm is just a subcategory of "you dont like". and you only tolerate something as much as you can deal with some part of yourself being changed or "harmed".
When you go over to someone's house for dinner, there is a chance they will serve you something you don't like. It is however, impolite to refuse to eat what is put before you, so you eat it anyways. You're tolerating something you don't like. Eating things you don't like isn't going to kill you, obviously.
completely trivial compared to what you are saying. that isjust apersonal, physiical based preference.

no one is forcing a single thing on you. there is no unpleasant thing to eat EXCEPT YOUR OWN PHYSICAL FEAR OF GAY GUYS FUCKING

So... would I be a coward if I didn't stand up and say "I HATE BROCOLLI, I HOPE YOU ALL DIE HORRIBLY FOR FEEDING IT TO ME!"
nope you're standing up for your physical self and thats not exaclty noble but at least youre telling people what you feel. you cant control what you feel

kind of like gays, get it?

No, obviously I wouldn't. There is a huge difference between keeping your opinion to yourself, and being a coward.
no there is not. keeping your opinions to yourself is being scared of what people wil lthink of them (cowardice)

we all practise this form of cowardice in some form or another. i dont tell people what i think of when i masturbate because i dont really think its relevant to who i am.

but we are dealing with a simple, beautiful thing called love and you are denying someone love by simply "believing it is worng"
If declining to say something means you are protecting their feelings from being hurt, then don't say it.
rubbish in this case, not rubbish in the case of *baby i think you look fat in the dress.

denying knowledge this important is utter nonesense.

Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. I smile and nod, say "good for you". If they are happy, that's all that matters. It's not my business anyways.
coward. you make it your business by thinking about it.

And no, opinions cannot be wrong, no matter how stupid they are. An opinion is what you think about something. You are allowed to think whatever you want. If I hate jews (my grandparents are jewish, I'm making an example) that's my opinion. As long as I don't go out and offend jewish people, or assault them, or make their lives miserable, I can think whatever the hell I want about them, and it's still my right.
you have no right to act based on a faulty opinion and that is what people like you are doing.

In simple, small words... I do not like the concept of being gay, but I will not discriminate against or insult gay people. Even if I was an American and could vote on this, I wouldn't. I don't want the blood on my hands. I know a lot of homosexuals as friends or acquaintances, and I could never be responsible for ruining their dreams.
in small simple words: you beleive something is wrong because it is a distasteful image to you and you're happy with not questioning the premises god has for forbidding gays. you dont tell people because youre scared of what they tihnk of you

in small simple words youre a coward. its not the worst thing in the entire world but you need to come to terms with it


I don't know about you guys, but I would rather be cool with God than anybody else down here. If God says that marriage is union between one man and one woman (which excludes polygamy too) then that's final.
if you are unwilling t question knowledge you are a coward
 
It doesn't say anything in the definition of tolerance that I have to say "yeah, you guys are right! Being gay is cool with me! Lets all be gay now!" All I have to do is treat them like regular people (which is how you should treat everybody to begin with) and keep my opinion to myself. That's tolerance.

you just fucked yourself over with that comment
 
This doesn't affect me - I live in Australia, but sorry I'm disagreeing. I'm Christian and don't believe in same-sex marriages.

Gays can love each other, I have no problem with that, I think it's wrong, but it's their choice and I will tolerate that. But to be joined in a homosexual union recognised by the church and the government to me is just wrong.

I'll definitely offend some people, and for this I apologise in advance.

Remind me again...since when does a state proposition have anything to do with the church? This should be a civil rights argument, not a religious argument.
 
You're the hypocrite here Anti, you're all about promoting tolerance and whatnot, yet here you are, singling me out because of my religious beliefs.
what belief? you believe that its easy to live your life if your religion decides everything for you.

That's all what it boils down to right... homosexuals BELIEVE it is ok to have a sexual relationship,
theyre right and youre naive if you think its just sexual
I BELIEVE in God, and what God says goes.
if your belief in "knowledge" is such that you are unwilling to shift/question the knowledge itself

that belief is worthless, and coincidentally, so is the knowledge.

The difference here is I am trying not to offend the people who have a different point of view, while you openly mock me. You're really tolerant, hm?
im intolerant of ignorance

Tolerate: To allow (something that one dislikes or disagrees with) to exist or occur without interference.
i do not want ignorance to ever exist ever.i do not tolerate it. ignorance has no funciton whatsoever

you dont want gays to fuck because it makes you queasy

see the difference?


Anyways, I am not wrong to agree with God on this one. If He is a perfect being, He is always right.
youre scared of making a single descision on your own without approval. you have issues.
Since I believe in God, then in my mind, I think he is perfect, which means he's right. If he is imperfect, he's not a god, in which case, there is no point in following him.
IF HES NOT PERFECT? let's explore that. you have a doubt that everything in the bible could be true?

you really think there were talking snakes way back when? you really think women should never teach?

You can get into the whole "you're stupid skiddle, God isn't real" thing, but really, that'd be going more off topic than we already are. I guess I'll find out if He's real when I go and die, right? If there is no afterlife, feel free to yell "I told you so" and piss all over my grave.

id rather you have a more fulfilled life

@ Gormenghast: You must be a real hoot in real life... voicing your opinion all the time, no matter how it makes other people feel...
i am pretty much awesome ^_^
 
Skiddle there are so, so many parts of the bible that people choose to ignore because they are outdated. The bible pretty strongly advocates sexism, and ridiculously harsh punishments. How do you justify picking and choosing which parts you want to obey? American Christians are already not following the bible to the T, so I don't really see why one more ignored clause makes a flying fuck of a difference.

Of course, in my ideal world this would be about civil rights since the constitution pretty clearly prohibits a union of church and state affairs.
 
Anyways, I am not wrong to agree with God on this one. If He is a perfect being, He is always right. Since I believe in God, then in my mind, I think he is perfect, which means he's right

in my mind

I don't want this to turn into a 'God is just an imaginary friend you're retarded' vs. 'GOD IS REAL THE BIBLE SAYS SO' shitstorm either. But if you're going to start going down that path you can't just say no one can challenge that justification because it'll derail the thread.
 
I would just like to point out that Marriage predates Christianity. To replace the term marriage with the term civil union is just patronising people who probably honestly dont approve of gay civil unions anyway. This is just picking apart the semantics of an argument that never had any basis to begin with..

Have a nice day.
 
You're the hypocrite here Anti, you're all about promoting tolerance and whatnot, yet here you are, singling me out because of my religious beliefs.
I have no moral issue with singling out those which promote homophobia; would you have a problem calling a racist an arsehole? "He has every right to tell that African American "(BAN ME PLEASE)" to go back to the cotton fields!" "Oh he's got a 2000 year old book that says it's okay, we can't disagree with him now!"
 
I found out about this and the only good thing it did was give me a topic to write about for a 2000 word paper I had due a few days later.

As far as I can see, parents are apparently afraid that their children might learn to accept people regardless of sexual orientation. Oh noes, what a terrible thing. I mean, they were up in arms because their children attended their lesbian teacher's wedding? Are you fucking kidding me? That's reason for an outrage now?

If this is a religious thing, the state should have nothing to do with it anyway. All this law does is discriminate based on sexual orientation. I don't see how this is acceptable at all. If this was proposed in Canada people would throw a fit.
 
Guys you're getting confused, there is no "religious" point of view here, this was for gay marriage by the law. There is no point of arguing using your religion as to why it is wrong.Some religions forbade the consumption of meat on certain days, would you go out and manifest how detestable is to eat meat at easter?

And please, have some empathy with the gay people that want to have the right to get married with anyone they want. It shouldn't affect you, not even your God...
 
Let them (homosexual couples) live together, but it cannot be called Marriage, so thus they should not be able to marry each other.
Marriage is a holy sacrament between a man and a woman.

And what's with all the gay oriented threads in Cong recently?

It's so fucking holy but Britney Spears can get married for 24 hours and then call it quits. It's so fucking holy but you can have an Elvis impersonator do the honors. It's so fucking holy but over 50% of all marriages end in divorce.

Get off your high horse. If it's so fucking holy then it should be treated as such. It ISN'T. It's more a legal bind than a holy sacrament in the US. If you want holy sacrament, discuss marriage in a country where religion governs and not free and equal rights.
 
I'm not allowed to eat meat every Friday :(
Unless I'm at a restaurant with friends or something. Then screw that. I'm not spending $20 on crappy food for a religion I don't believe in. I just do it in other cases as my mom and grandma want me to and I honestly don't mind too much.
 
Have to agree with Misty, marriage is a religious institution, and therefore because of separation of Church and State should not be recognized by the government. The government can allow unions where gay couples and straight couples are allowed to file joint tax returns, and the other benefits that currently go with being married. Let the Church, whether it be Catholic, Jewish, etc, decide what marriage entails in their religion.

Contrary to popular opinion, marriage is not seen as a religioius instituiton by the government. The court's definition of marriage (and I can tell you this from working in the CA family court system in the past) is that it's only a contract signed between two people that dictates how assets are regulated when two people decide to tie their financial lives together or start a family, such as how they're divided up when the relationship doesn't work out. There's no sacred or religious anything involved with it.

I guess the best way to explain this is it's like Christmas. On one had, you've got the American public, Hallmark Christmas with Santa Claus and Jack Frost and Rudolph, etc..., and on the other side you have the hardcore religious Christmas which is more about the birth of Jesus than the rest of that stuff.

Anyway, prop 8 is only based on bigotry and people's religious agendas that don't have any place in gov't and I'll vote no on it later today.
 
There's a lot I could rip at here, and I might at a time that isn't getting closer and closer to 4 AM on a day when I have class the next morning, but this stood out particularly strongly in my head reading this thread...


geez, what the hell is wrong with you gorm... I'm allowed to think whatever I want to, quit telling me how I'm wrong and stuff. If I don't think homosexuality is right, then that's my prerogative.

While your posts in this thread have been a sea of bullshit this is like the bullshit whirlpool sucking in all the intelligent thoughts and making them into more bullshit.

Seriously, are you kidding me? You basically just said "I have the right to think whatever I want, regardless of how immoral or uneducated my views are", which is putting words in your mouth but it is a pretty decent a->b from your previous posts. This is a ridiculous statement, you don't have the "right" to be ignorant about anything, at least in my view, especially in situations like the root of this topic where people are voting on an issue that will effect thousands of people's lives. There's nothing that should "allow" you to choose to be ignorant regardless of what your "prerogative" is.

skiddle said:
I never said "don't be gay or you'll burn in hell" or "don't be gay, or I'll kill you". I said I don't like it, and no amount of conditioning will ever convince me that being gay is just as acceptable as being hetero.

All I have to do is treat them like regular people (which is how you should treat everybody to begin with) and keep my opinion to myself.

Tolerate: To allow (something that one dislikes or disagrees with) to exist or occur without interference.

So while I secretly frown upon being gay

Unless they start hitting on me

And no, I will never tell my children that it is OK to be gay.

in their decision

I'm just... well, fearful of the consequences

Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. (as this makes it ok or it isn't obvious anyway lol)

homosexuals BELIEVE it is ok to have a sexual relationship

skiddle said:
It's frustrating... I hate being a majority. As a white, straight, christian north american, everyone assumes I am racist, sexist, spoiled, selfish, intolerant and violent. Adding "homophobic" to that already huge list would make me look worse than I already do in the eyes of minorities.

dictionary.com said:
lack of toleration; unwillingness or refusal to tolerate or respect contrary opinions or beliefs, persons of different races or backgrounds, etc.

This is not 'tolerance'. You are not choosing to "endure" the plight that apparently is the homosexuals for some sort of comedic greater good, you're doing it because it's socially acceptable. You've made it pretty clear in what I quoted above you don't respect or really tolerate homosexuality, but that you deal with it because you have to. That's intolerance, not tolerance.

I don't have a source on this but I'd had some interesting chats with one of my bosses last summer who'd been reading some material for one of her classes about how intolerance was only one step down from hatred, and that in practice they were pretty much the same thing. I'm not going to draw any farther conclusions without a source to work with since this is hardly a common knowledge claim, but I'll let you draw your own conclusions here... I'm not really sure why you're judging your values on the perception people have of you, but I'm pretty sure no one looking at this objectively is going to see your argument very positively.



skiddle said:
maybe instead of being a douche

There's a bunch more of these I'm too lazy to go find at this point but the ad hominem doesn't really help your credibility, either. I know I'm kind of being hypocritical with the sea of bullshit line but honestly at least be subtle...
 
To clarify, gay couples in civil unions will retain those marriage rights. They just can't call it a marriage because the traditional bigots want to keep it "sacred".
 
Also I'm not sure this is really worth an extra post but since I see some of the non-Americans are confused - propositions vary state by state, this is specific to California, at the moment. Of course, the results in one state's polls, California's in particular historically, do tend to have an effect on how propositions are passed and proposed in other states in the future, but at least looking at this myopically for the moment only Californians can actually vote on it right now
 
lol @ this above this thread:

imgad


also ta for any extra info for non-americans (I).
 
I'd personally vote "no" on this proposition. I don't think we have the right to call marriage a "sacred institution" in a country where 40-50% of all marriages end up failing, but there is definitely the idea that it is a religious institution, so I can see where the Christian Right is coming from.
 
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