Tolerance doesn't mean it has to harm you, it means you don't like it. When you go over to someone's house for dinner, there is a chance they will serve you something you don't like. It is however, impolite to refuse to eat what is put before you, so you eat it anyways. You're tolerating something you don't like. Eating things you don't like isn't going to kill you, obviously.
So... would I be a coward if I didn't stand up and say "I HATE BROCOLLI, I HOPE YOU ALL DIE HORRIBLY FOR FEEDING IT TO ME!"
No, obviously I wouldn't. There is a huge difference between keeping your opinion to yourself, and being a coward. If declining to say something means you are protecting their feelings from being hurt, then don't say it.
Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. I smile and nod, say "good for you". If they are happy, that's all that matters. It's not my business anyways.
doesn't even make sense, you contradict yourselfPersonally, I think the act of homosexuality is wrong (from a religious pov)
better a sheep that evolved than one that was made by some genie without a bottle snapping it's fingersIn fact, I suppose I could call all of you sheep...
harm/you dont like are often the same thing! harm is just a subcategory of "you dont like". and you only tolerate something as much as you can deal with some part of yourself being changed or "harmed".Tolerance doesn't mean it has to harm you, it means you don't like it.
completely trivial compared to what you are saying. that isjust apersonal, physiical based preference.When you go over to someone's house for dinner, there is a chance they will serve you something you don't like. It is however, impolite to refuse to eat what is put before you, so you eat it anyways. You're tolerating something you don't like. Eating things you don't like isn't going to kill you, obviously.
nope you're standing up for your physical self and thats not exaclty noble but at least youre telling people what you feel. you cant control what you feelSo... would I be a coward if I didn't stand up and say "I HATE BROCOLLI, I HOPE YOU ALL DIE HORRIBLY FOR FEEDING IT TO ME!"
no there is not. keeping your opinions to yourself is being scared of what people wil lthink of them (cowardice)No, obviously I wouldn't. There is a huge difference between keeping your opinion to yourself, and being a coward.
rubbish in this case, not rubbish in the case of *baby i think you look fat in the dress.If declining to say something means you are protecting their feelings from being hurt, then don't say it.
coward. you make it your business by thinking about it.Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. I smile and nod, say "good for you". If they are happy, that's all that matters. It's not my business anyways.
you have no right to act based on a faulty opinion and that is what people like you are doing.And no, opinions cannot be wrong, no matter how stupid they are. An opinion is what you think about something. You are allowed to think whatever you want. If I hate jews (my grandparents are jewish, I'm making an example) that's my opinion. As long as I don't go out and offend jewish people, or assault them, or make their lives miserable, I can think whatever the hell I want about them, and it's still my right.
in small simple words: you beleive something is wrong because it is a distasteful image to you and you're happy with not questioning the premises god has for forbidding gays. you dont tell people because youre scared of what they tihnk of youIn simple, small words... I do not like the concept of being gay, but I will not discriminate against or insult gay people. Even if I was an American and could vote on this, I wouldn't. I don't want the blood on my hands. I know a lot of homosexuals as friends or acquaintances, and I could never be responsible for ruining their dreams.
if you are unwilling t question knowledge you are a cowardI don't know about you guys, but I would rather be cool with God than anybody else down here. If God says that marriage is union between one man and one woman (which excludes polygamy too) then that's final.
It doesn't say anything in the definition of tolerance that I have to say "yeah, you guys are right! Being gay is cool with me! Lets all be gay now!" All I have to do is treat them like regular people (which is how you should treat everybody to begin with) and keep my opinion to myself. That's tolerance.
This doesn't affect me - I live in Australia, but sorry I'm disagreeing. I'm Christian and don't believe in same-sex marriages.
Gays can love each other, I have no problem with that, I think it's wrong, but it's their choice and I will tolerate that. But to be joined in a homosexual union recognised by the church and the government to me is just wrong.
I'll definitely offend some people, and for this I apologise in advance.
what belief? you believe that its easy to live your life if your religion decides everything for you.You're the hypocrite here Anti, you're all about promoting tolerance and whatnot, yet here you are, singling me out because of my religious beliefs.
theyre right and youre naive if you think its just sexualThat's all what it boils down to right... homosexuals BELIEVE it is ok to have a sexual relationship,
if your belief in "knowledge" is such that you are unwilling to shift/question the knowledge itselfI BELIEVE in God, and what God says goes.
im intolerant of ignoranceThe difference here is I am trying not to offend the people who have a different point of view, while you openly mock me. You're really tolerant, hm?
i do not want ignorance to ever exist ever.i do not tolerate it. ignorance has no funciton whatsoeverTolerate: To allow (something that one dislikes or disagrees with) to exist or occur without interference.
youre scared of making a single descision on your own without approval. you have issues.Anyways, I am not wrong to agree with God on this one. If He is a perfect being, He is always right.
IF HES NOT PERFECT? let's explore that. you have a doubt that everything in the bible could be true?Since I believe in God, then in my mind, I think he is perfect, which means he's right. If he is imperfect, he's not a god, in which case, there is no point in following him.
You can get into the whole "you're stupid skiddle, God isn't real" thing, but really, that'd be going more off topic than we already are. I guess I'll find out if He's real when I go and die, right? If there is no afterlife, feel free to yell "I told you so" and piss all over my grave.
i am pretty much awesome ^_^@ Gormenghast: You must be a real hoot in real life... voicing your opinion all the time, no matter how it makes other people feel...
Anyways, I am not wrong to agree with God on this one. If He is a perfect being, He is always right. Since I believe in God, then in my mind, I think he is perfect, which means he's right
in my mind
I have no moral issue with singling out those which promote homophobia; would you have a problem calling a racist an arsehole? "He has every right to tell that African American "(BAN ME PLEASE)" to go back to the cotton fields!" "Oh he's got a 2000 year old book that says it's okay, we can't disagree with him now!"You're the hypocrite here Anti, you're all about promoting tolerance and whatnot, yet here you are, singling me out because of my religious beliefs.
Let them (homosexual couples) live together, but it cannot be called Marriage, so thus they should not be able to marry each other.
Marriage is a holy sacrament between a man and a woman.
And what's with all the gay oriented threads in Cong recently?
Have to agree with Misty, marriage is a religious institution, and therefore because of separation of Church and State should not be recognized by the government. The government can allow unions where gay couples and straight couples are allowed to file joint tax returns, and the other benefits that currently go with being married. Let the Church, whether it be Catholic, Jewish, etc, decide what marriage entails in their religion.
geez, what the hell is wrong with you gorm... I'm allowed to think whatever I want to, quit telling me how I'm wrong and stuff. If I don't think homosexuality is right, then that's my prerogative.
skiddle said:I never said "don't be gay or you'll burn in hell" or "don't be gay, or I'll kill you". I said I don't like it, and no amount of conditioning will ever convince me that being gay is just as acceptable as being hetero.
All I have to do is treat them like regular people (which is how you should treat everybody to begin with) and keep my opinion to myself.
Tolerate: To allow (something that one dislikes or disagrees with) to exist or occur without interference.
So while I secretly frown upon being gay
Unless they start hitting on me
And no, I will never tell my children that it is OK to be gay.
in their decision
I'm just... well, fearful of the consequences
Voicing my opinion on how I think homosexual relationships are detestable to me and are a sin in the eyes of my God would offend gay people. Therefore, I don't tell them I feel that way about it. (as this makes it ok or it isn't obvious anyway lol)
homosexuals BELIEVE it is ok to have a sexual relationship
skiddle said:It's frustrating... I hate being a majority. As a white, straight, christian north american, everyone assumes I am racist, sexist, spoiled, selfish, intolerant and violent. Adding "homophobic" to that already huge list would make me look worse than I already do in the eyes of minorities.
dictionary.com said:lack of toleration; unwillingness or refusal to tolerate or respect contrary opinions or beliefs, persons of different races or backgrounds, etc.
skiddle said:maybe instead of being a douche