ok, let's try this
i have a date next friday with a girl, but i'm not sure if she knows it's a date, and i'm not 100% sure she's into me, and i don't know how to tell.
we met at SAT prep. i've seen her around for a year, but only talked to her for two weeks. i thought she liked me -- she started dressing better, smiling back at me, laughing at my jokes -- so i asked to a music show at my high school and then burgers afterward.
but, i'm not sure if i was absolutely clear about my intentions. i didn't use the word "date" or "just the two of us" -- i said "do you want to go to x at y time", to which she said yes quickly, and then there was an awkward silence for 3 minutes till the instructor came back. also, i felt i was putting more of the effort into our conversation that day and fighting for her interest. (i know that seems like a red flag, but she had started conversations with me beforehand).
i should mention that she isn't the most outspoken person, though she has a lot of friends in school, so its not totally like "oh sure she likes you she's just shy". she doesn't touch my arm or play with her hair or engage me in conversation constantly or bat her eyes or whatever the fuck i'm supposed to look for.
so in conclusion i'm not really sure what's up. what to do?
and also, if she actually is into me, how the hell do i engage with her when we're in the show itself ? (it's just students, in the basement, listening to music performances/comedy/poetry. i feel like there's a bit of extra pressure, and i don't want to be really romantic and touchy-feely if she's not into me, because that might just creep her out.)
we go to different schools, and are both 16.
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actually, i was omitting detail, but she's the only one taking it (and it's not really a course, it's just one teacher/one student work on the essay itself.) i just happen to live in the course building, so i sit in on the lessons. the instructor is my mom. i realize how weird that sounds.
i don't think it's super weird for the girl though, because my mom and i have a good rapport, and the actual work is very casual. which translates over and makes things in generally more funny?