In essence: Go10 and I had talked on IRC at a time we were both on. I asked if he could play then, and he said no, he had family over and such and wouldn't be able to. He was adamant about that, so we tried scheduling a time for the next day at 1 PM my time. I'm going to college on Saturday for the first time, so I told him I would be really busy then, Friday incredibly, Saturday of course, and I have a few days of orientation and I couldn't guarantee my availability. He had told me would be okay playing late for these games. 1 PM my time was like 7 PM for him, so not too bad. At around 10 PM my time, way before our scheduled game, I VMed him asking if he could play around 2 PM or 2 30 PM instead, since I had to go get some stuff for school. He had logged on at like five minutes before the scheduled time and logged off, so I know he saw that message. Then, around 2 15 PM, he logged on IRC...and logged off immediately. I stayed on for four hours and he did not log back in. I don't know if or when I'd be able to play these games aside from that day, and I told him playing then was incredibly important. Posting to say I don't know if these matches will get done because I have no idea about my free time or availability over the next week. This is a big life style change.