it's a common enough Woke Statement that people postyeah thats great, except it's no one's slogan except for Karoshi Dragon's in a strawman lol, where do people go around using that as their slogan? so thanks for the tip internet, but as far as I can tell the only substance to your advice is in propping up a strawman and deflecting away from the gendered dynamics of sexual violence.
Anyone who is confused or angered by the slogan black lives matter is probably (definitely?) racist and probably would find a way to be offended by “stop killing black people”. I mean you could argue that it would make the racists more obvious and people in the middle more likely to see that, but honestly the “all lives matter, stop implying white lives don’t matter” response is such an obvious dog whistle the people who can’t see that are either really dumb or intentionally being obtuse in order to seem like they’re in the middle when they’re also just kind of racist.i feel like the slogan "stop killing black people" sends the same message as "black lives matter" but in a less confusing way, so people would be less likely to get mad
That is abaolutely false. I do not know the numbers in the US but in the Netherlands only 10% of all full professors is female and those numbers are even lower if you only consider natural sciences. In my own department (mathematics, which I guess you do not count under science in this definition) we have at most 20% females for phd students and under 10% for senior staff. We only have 1 female full professor. I also did a bachelor in physics and I had zero female professors there. Sure there will be exceptions but they are just that, exceptions.I'd just like to point out that, in opposition to the other three letters of the much-lauded STEM acronym, science is pretty evenly split between men and women.
several other people in this thread were defending the usage of the phrase and i was talking in direct reply to themyeah thats great, except it's no one's slogan except for Karoshi Dragon's in a strawman lol, where do people go around using that as their slogan? so thanks for the tip internet, but as far as I can tell the only substance to your advice is in propping up a strawman and deflecting away from the gendered dynamics of sexual violence.
???yeah, 'teach our sons not to rape' what a woke statement! especially when 90% of sexual violence is done by men, and btw mainstream news and psychology today (btw this was the site where I found my therapist, do you see a theme yet folks?) is now 'woke postings', I didn't know. Thanks for educating me in this anti-intellectual, resentment-fueled world view, I wouldn't want to set-off a school shooter or black piller by posting facts.
Or maybe people think it's a phrase that accomplishes nothing, not whining about feeling attacked. Do police sit down and say "ah, if only this guy KNEW he was raping this woman, then he wouldn't have done it". Rapists are the problem, not men. What hearts and minds are changed by learning that consent is like a cup of tea?it;s kinda funny how this whole topic has devolved into a bunch of guys whining that they kinda feel attacked by a statement that is obvious as to what it means if you aren't intentially trying to be a disengenous fucking shit. then again, I guess thats the core demographic of the website, so shouldn't be surprised
It's purely an issue of how much do we hold the white mans hand and rub lotion on his thin skin to keep him comfortable through the scary times.I guess if you think taking things the wrong way is a debate tactic rather than a thing that happens because of poor communication you might think those statements are reasonable to make
Professors are but a tiny portion of the totality of science professions, you ninny. I personally consider 40/60 a fairly reasonable split at any rate, you've gotta have some range of error around the 50/50 ideal.That is abaolutely false. I do not know the numbers in the US but in the Netherlands only 10% of all full professors is female and those numbers are even lower if you only consider natural sciences. In my own department (mathematics, which I guess you do not count under science in this definition) we have at most 20% females for phd students and under 10% for senior staff. We only have 1 female full professor. I also did a bachelor in physics and I had zero female professors there. Sure there will be exceptions but they are just that, exceptions.
do you intend to post like this after youve move to thailand to enjoy the privilege afforded you there by your western-nation wealth and whiteness as wellIt's purely an issue of how much do we hold the white mans hand and rub lotion on his thin skin to keep him comfortable through the scary times.
It's really hard not to read posts talking about how "libs increase racial tension in whites by talking about racial issues" as "maybe massa will let you progress if you kept him happy first"
And I wouldn't talk about how libs can't phrase things when conservatives run around calling themselves incels
As long as you said itmfw told not to rape women despite never having meaningful contact with one in the first place
yeah so as we can see most of the time that hash tag is being used in response to an instance when someone blamed a woman for causing her rape. in these instances women are taught that it is their fault that men rape them, so I reckon the response comes in to push back against that way of thinking, that we have to warn women, for example, to watch their drinks when they go out, rather than having difficult conversations with men.???
You ask for examples of the phrase being used. I'm giving then to you. People are using it. It's a damn hashtag. Nowhere am I slandering mainstream psych websites.
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It's worth mentioning that helping women avoid situations where bad things are more likely to happen to them isn't necessarily equivalent to blaming them for the bad things that do happen to them.women are taught that it is their fault that men rape them, so I reckon the response comes in to push back against that way of thinking, that we have to warn women, for example, to watch their drinks when they go out, rather than having difficult conversations with men.
Is that really a fair thing to say tho? If anything, living in a foreign country where one's faced daily with the vivid difference of class/privilege compared to one's own, more comfortable homeland and personal background should lead one to better see through the frailties and foibles of those of his or her's own social and class profile, rather than perch them into pundits' ivory towers.do you intend to post like this after youve move to thailand to enjoy the privilege afforded you there by your western-nation wealth and whiteness as well
I mean if you want people to know what bigotry looks like youd call in the expert wouldnt younext batch of searches i guess, you still gotta find the one that makes it seem like people using the hashtag are all bigots against men, but maybe you should take the word of the expert at bigotry, TIK, instead of me.
Haha did you even see Titanic?Women are so strong and independent that we need to bend over backwards to grant them extra protection.
Ofcourse even though the men get less value they still pay the same. Women just need a better deal because society hates women. This reminds me of the good old days when women were seen as worthless and had no rights. Back then they had this ship called the Titanic and every man was allowed to go for a swim but women had to wait on boring small boats. What a sexism. If that does not prove women were hated then nothing will.
70.8% of children murdered by one parent are murdered by their mothers. Teach our daughters not to murder young children? "Sweetie, when you're older, make sure you don't kill your kid, mmmkay?"yeah, 'teach our sons not to rape' what a woke statement! especially when 90% of sexual violence is done by men, and btw mainstream news and psychology today (btw this was the site where I found my therapist, do you see a theme yet folks?) is now 'woke postings', I didn't know. Thanks for educating me in this anti-intellectual, resentment-fueled world view, I wouldn't want to set-off a school shooter or black piller by posting facts.